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pocebokli
Oct13-04, 12:39 PM
is suicide the individuals most basic and fundamental right?
is it incosiderate for individual to kill himself and deprive his family and society of himself, since it is in most cases the circumstances and inconsideration of the society that is the cause of this?
I've been told, I always have the right to die.. I don't know if there's a specific age where that right comes in or not. I think it is inconsiderate for an individual not only to family and society but to themselves to end theirself before allowing the given society or living circumstances to be adjusted that fit themselves where living on with it could work..
Everything is an Adventure
Most of life is taking leaps off an edge hoping to catch the other side
There are different size leaps
Some you know you can do, you try
Always a possibility of slipping and falling
Some you're not sure if you can do
You try anyway, with bigger chances that you'll fall
How will you know what it's like on the other side of the leap if you don't try?
Prometheus
Oct13-04, 01:47 PM
is suicide the individuals most basic and fundamental right?
Your use of the word right implies that this is a political question. Suicide is clearly an option. Do you mean to discuss the government granted right to sucide? What do you mean?
is it incosiderate for individual to kill himself
How can you ask this? There cannot be a single answer that fits all situations. This question makes me think that you are asking this in a political manner, as to whether or not there should be punishment for the attempt.
In other words, I really do not understand what your post is driving at.
wuliheron
Oct13-04, 02:32 PM
In some countries euthenasia is a legal right. But whatever the case might be, if someone really wants to commit suicide there is little that can be done to prevent them.
That being the case, I have to echo other people and ask what exactly do you mean?
Preator Fenix
Oct13-04, 09:41 PM
In a community, you are needed, weather you like it or not.
Your expericances, for better or worse, are needed for the evolution of humanity.
If we as a group allow auto destruction, we are not helping ourselfs at all.
Sucide is not a right, as to invoke that right would curtail the rights of others as it is a fundamental right of a human being to not be alone.
Prometheus
Oct14-04, 11:55 AM
Your expericances, for better or worse, are needed for the evolution of humanity.
You don't seem to understand what evolution is all about.
Sucide is not a right, as to invoke that right would curtail the rights of others as it is a fundamental right of a human being to not be alone.
You clearly do not understand what a right is. Care to define the word right as you used it these 4 times in this sentence?
Sucide is not a right, as to invoke that right would curtail the rights of others as it is a fundamental right of a human being to not be alone.
A counter-argument to this would likely state the vague nature of your statement. An argument of this light magnitude would likely be ignored in e.g. the court of law (imo).
Philocrat
Oct14-04, 11:24 PM
is suicide the individuals most basic and fundamental right?
is it incosiderate for individual to kill himself and deprive his family and society of himself, since it is in most cases the circumstances and inconsideration of the society that is the cause of this?
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Suicide is the GREATEST RISK for the human race to take. A society that permits (or whose ACTIONS lead to) Suicides takes the GREATEST RISK of all!
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Philocrat, will you please stop bolding and colouring all the fonts you use in every post? If your post has any true significance, it does not need any more contrast.
Preator Fenix
Oct16-04, 08:30 PM
A modern court system would ignore my argument dekoi, as I am not speaking in a strictly legal sense.
When I speak of the social implications of suicide I am thinking in very small populations in a more primitive age of human existance, and more specificly, in a state of anomity.
In a modern state, were no one knows each other, the suicide of person means less and less as the population grows.
From this I arrive at the axiom that suicide is wrong and should be unlawfull to the degree your actions may or may not affect the rest of the population
Prometheus
Oct16-04, 09:01 PM
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Suicide is the GREATEST RISK for the human race to take. A society that permits (or whose ACTIONS lead to) Suicides takes the GREATEST RISK of all!
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You are making quite an emphatic statement. However, I have no idea what you are talking about, or what you mean by risk. Do you?
Prometheus
Oct16-04, 09:02 PM
From this I arrive at the axiom that suicide is wrong and should be unlawfull to the degree your actions may or may not affect the rest of the population
How selfish of you.
Tom McCurdy
Oct16-04, 10:14 PM
You can't generalize life...
Preator Fenix
Oct17-04, 01:08 PM
I am sorry Prometheus, but human existance is fundamentally selfish. We base all our morality basicly on the "I'll scratch your back, if you scratch MY back" mentality. It is the system of mutual and benefical parasites.
If your death has little or negiable effects population, then remeber to cut your arm laterally from the wrist to the start of your elbow deeply to allow for maximal blood dispersal.
If your death brings about negative consequences for the community at large, then suck it up and hold out to the tragic bitter end.
Prometheus
Oct17-04, 03:20 PM
human existance is fundamentally selfish.
I will not disagree with this.
If your death has little or negiable effects population, then remeber to cut your arm laterally from the wrist to the start of your elbow deeply to allow for maximal blood dispersal.
If your death brings about negative consequences for the community at large, then suck it up and hold out to the tragic bitter end.
I suspect that you are trying to be funny. I hope that you are trying to be funny. Other than your sense of humor, I really have no idea what the point of your post is. Do you have a point? If so, please make it in a manner that is more clear.
Society puts certain individuals to death, in this country, all the time. Whether or not you or I think that the death penalty is justified or deserves our support, the fact is that it is legal. Therefore, I think that your desire to see suicide be made illegal is selfish of you, as this society has determined that not all deaths have a negative effect on society.
Preator Fenix
Oct17-04, 03:47 PM
Again I repeat I speak not from a personal point of view.
Personally I see no problem if you who I do not know in some far away country takes upon himself to end his life. It does not AFFECT me. I would though oppose with ALL my will if say my brother wants to kill himself,... it is selfish of me I know, but I cannot bear to lose my brother. His death WILL affect me.
From a societal POV, which sees individual humans lives as cogs and componets in a big machine, the same attitude would be dangerous. As far as the social "machine" goes, who does not have the benefit of NOT KNOWING each person,... each person serves a function and purpose and it would behove the "machine" to not lose any of it's "parts" needlessly. This is ever more true the SMALLER the population, therefore the more critcally important the interconnections between individuals is the MORE important it is not NOT allow individuals to autodestruct. Only in extreme population thresholds and population overconcentrations could autodestruction BEGIN to be a viable option.
Therefore AS A GENERAL RULE OF THUMB nature instils the concept that sucicde is NOT a good thing. It is little wonder that most primitive religous systems captured this usefull axiom, and enacted laws and ordinaces that eliminated or at least reduced suicide to extreme highly specific situations.
Does this in effect violate and trampel on your personal and intimate human rights. Absolutely does. But as far as the community at large is concerned, TO DAMM BAD.
If you think Im "selfish" and "unfair" in my views of suicide, you wouldnt even want to hear of my opion of the whole silly concept of "human rights".
PerennialII
Oct17-04, 03:52 PM
If your death brings about negative consequences for the community at large, then suck it up and hold out to the tragic bitter end.
Would not this invalidate the overall argument (why not allow individual do what he pleases), if an individual comes to the conclusion that its time to give up ... what possible use could a greater community have for him? And as such make the responsibility of a person towards the community negligible, in turn arising the question what sort of responsibility should a society have towards a suicidal person (not speaking in legal etc. terms)?
Preator Fenix
Oct17-04, 04:39 PM
Well I for the survial of a small community a damm has to be built to regulate a raging river during the raing season all the extra arms and legs will be needed.
It has the responsibility to stop him to whatever pratical extent possible from killing himself. Not more effort should be put in then would be lost in the person ending his life could afford the rest of the community..
Prometheus
Oct17-04, 04:56 PM
AS A GENERAL RULE OF THUMB nature instils the concept that sucicde is NOT a good thing.
You are correct that this is a general rule. There are numerous exceptions.
I would though oppose with ALL my will if say my brother wants to kill himself,... it is selfish of me I know, but I cannot bear to lose my brother. His death WILL affect me.
I do not disagree with what you have said here. What I disagree with is that once your brother has been saved from attempted suicide, you would have him sent to prison for even attempting to negatively affect your admittedly selfish self.
Preator Fenix
Oct17-04, 07:01 PM
Prison? No that would not be a efficant thing to do.
Mentally healthy people dont commite suicide (under normal conditions )
They therefore should be sent to a mental institute.
Prometheus
Oct17-04, 07:23 PM
Prison? No that would not be a efficant thing to do.
People who break the law go to prison, do they not?
From this I arrive at the axiom that suicide is wrong and should be unlawfull
You advocate a law, such that violators can be required against their will to become under control of the State.
I agree that people who attempt suicide should and most often can be helped to overcome the temporary cause of their dispair, I am against any kind of law and any bahavior forced upon them by well-meaning deniers of liberty such as yourself.
Preator Fenix
Oct18-04, 02:03 PM
So you do not agree that society has a responsiblilty to help those with mental disorders??
Suicideal people should be place under state control until a time that they no longer pose a threat to themself or the community.
Remeber sucidedal people just dont kill themselfs... sometimes they decide to take others them with them.
Prometheus
Oct18-04, 03:33 PM
So you do not agree that society has a responsiblilty to help those with mental disorders??
I completely disagree with you, in spite of your misrepresentation of my views.
I think that it is a good idea for society to help those with mental disorders. However, unlike you, I would not propone making their actions illegal and taking them into state custody as you suggest.
Philocrat
Oct18-04, 10:58 PM
Philocrat, will you please stop bolding and colouring all the fonts you use in every post? If your post has any true significance, it does not need any more contrast.
Sorry about the bolding, I keep on explaining to people why I do it. Anyway, I have just been warned of that by the almighty PF directorate. I will try and tone things down....but I have also encouraged them to either kick me out of the PF or explain what these bolding and sizing tools are for.
Now to answer your question. What I meant was that any society that has the desire and will to think and act progressively cannot afford to take any risk at all, even including such things as commiting suicide as no one knows who amongst us may hold the ultemate antidote or solution to the human miseries or survival problems. Good sense or logic suggests that anyone of us on this planet potentially could hold the key to the human survival. This is purely a Universalist Principle which is contrary to the Utilitarian Principle. Universalism rules out suicide, not necessarily on moral grounds but also most importantly on survival grounds. From my own observation, utilitrianism never rules out survival completely, but only calculatively so. And you may very well think and act utilitarian, everyone is entitle to their own positions. However, from a Universalist position, which is purely survival in scope in this very case, even destroying a brain in the vat, if it stands in relations to the humans, is universally classed as a fundamental risk!
Philocrat
Oct18-04, 11:10 PM
You are making quite an emphatic statement. However, I have no idea what you are talking about, or what you mean by risk. Do you?
See my response to dekoi above!
False Prophet
Oct19-04, 06:41 PM
Since when is anyone obligated to benefit society? Is anyone required to work at white castle for $6.00 hr. USD? Is someone required to waste space in a studio apartment drinking all day? Is someone required to use welfare, self-help groups or whatever just to get back on track? Perhaps there are societies elsewhere that may benefit from my existence! Maybe I want to be reincarnated now, and do better in my next life! Maybe I want to get crackin' helping out the heaven population, and I can't wait to be hittin' on the sexy angels.* Maybe I really do believe I'm wasting recources, and there is a population crisis no matter how many people don't acknowledge it.
If someone comes to the bowling alley, but they decide that they don't like bowling so they want to visit the arcade, are you going to chain them up and force them to bowl for the rest of their life whether they like it or not? What concept of freedom would you have to have?
Also I'm not an antidote. I'm a regular home-sapien representative.
If I start data entry work after high school for $10.00 hour, but I'm smart enough be a doctor, am I ethically obligated to go to Medical school? If people owe themselves to society then why do we let them drop out of high school?
Life is worth living, even despite horrible circumstances, I've had my unfair share myself, but other people may have different values. Who is anyone else to regulate them? Why can you go hunting for sport, or have your dog/cat(s) put to sleep, but you can't pull your own plug, and you must be a slave to life support and mental detioration for the last miserable week of your life.
*I believe that you should give everything to this existence, and where you're going will still be there after your short life here. All of my examples to illustrate that different people have different values.
**If you're considering suicide, don't do it.
**My Views on the ethics of suicide to not apply to suicide bombers. Ya'll can kiss my United States of American A55. There won't be lots of sexy virgins where you're going, but there will be plenty of really bored gay rapist Ron Jeremy clones.
Philocrat
Oct20-04, 09:17 PM
correction....Posting #24 my response to dekoi
From my own observation, utilitrianism never rules out survival completely, but only calculatively so.
This was meant to read:
From my own observation, utilitrianism never rules out suicide completely, but only calculatively so.
pocebokli
Oct21-04, 08:52 AM
ok..why do you always complicate so?:-)...what i meant was...
many MANY MANY people are literally thrown into, well let's just say *absolutely* unenviable situations.
we all strive for the good things in our life. we have bad days and we have good days. but we all have a goal. for someone, family is worth living and suffering for even, for others love, for others their ambitions for others etc etc etc i hope you get my point. (see maslow's pyramid of needs or something).
what about those who either feel they have lost everything or they really never had anything, because of the society as we have it now. it is psychollogically determined that there is something like a safety switch in human brain that prevents suicide...let's call it survival instinct, more clear now?
well that safety switch as any other safety switch can collapse under certain ammount of pressure. in our case pressure is psychical (although it could be physical, too). that psychic pressure is loaded on top of it by our be-loved so-ciety. by it's expectations, it's normatives, it's morals etc. that kind of pressure hurts people that cannot cope with it really bad in my opinion.
so...isn't it actually sadistic to preven such a person from commiting suicide? is that why we have mental clynics, to say "we're sorry, now that we've burned your circuits completely and you can only say blah blah we'll take care of you (or feed you electroshocks)."
what about the collapsed souls and tortured bodies that are inevitable byproduct of our "progress"? do we even know wether the progress is worth it? can we perhaps forbid utter nihilism or degeneration? do my rights for suicide end where another person's rights for my life energy begin? would the society's opinion change if it happened that something extraterrestrial cause such unbearable suffering on ENTIRE society?
pocebokli
Oct21-04, 08:58 AM
is Esmeralda going to stay with Fernando?
ups wrong thread.
3mpathy
Nov23-04, 07:30 PM
Personally I see no problem if you who I do not know in some far away country takes upon himself to end his life. It does not AFFECT me. I would though oppose with ALL my will if say my brother wants to kill himself,... it is selfish of me I know, but I cannot bear to lose my brother. His death WILL affect me.
From a societal POV, which sees individual humans lives as cogs and componets in a big machine, the same attitude would be dangerous. As far as the social "machine" goes, who does not have the benefit of NOT KNOWING each person,... each person serves a function and purpose and it would behove the "machine" to not lose any of it's "parts" needlessly. This is ever more true the SMALLER the population, therefore the more critcally important the interconnections between individuals is the MORE important it is not NOT allow individuals to autodestruct. Only in extreme population thresholds and population overconcentrations could autodestruction BEGIN to be a viable option.
Prison? No that would not be a efficant thing to do.
Mentally healthy people dont commite suicide (under normal conditions )
They therefore should be sent to a mental institute.
using these 2 peices of information together one could argue that:
1) after attempting suicide your brother is a bad cog in the machine. bad cogs need to be removed/replaced to make the machine run properly. anyone that is a bad cog/threat to the machine needs to be removed.
2) you say that everyone one is needed to be a part of history/ the making of history for that group. then you go on to say that you are still needed even if it is good/bad. So you are saying that everyone has a important peice to play, "A line in the grand play" so to speak and you accept that it can be +/-. Then why can it not be suicide??? maybe that IS the card they were meant to play( if you believe in fate). But you dont even need to believe in fate to interpret that from your statements.
3) if you believe that everything plays are part or has a purpose and everyone can be collectively thought as as a machine, then why does one suicide count more that another? your brother or elvis presly should still have the same affect as a missing cog in the machine. it would ripple down and eventually affect you. yet you say o well for anyone that isnt close to you...?
the only thing that i agree with you with is that suicide is bad for a small community of ppl.
abitofnothingleft
Nov23-04, 10:32 PM
why is it selfish? true, it will cause harm to individuals close to the person who are still living, but is it not selfish of them to keep that person living? is it not selfish of them to keep that person in their tortured state for the sake of the hope that it's all "going to get better?" in thinking about how YOU are going to be affected after the persons death are you not being selfish too? if that person wants to die so much let them die. why keep them in that torture any longer? because YOU want them there....? is that not selfish on your part as well?
honestrosewater
Nov24-04, 03:02 AM
Preator Fenix,
(I just have to ask)
Do you really believe your argument or do you just enjoy making it?
the number 42
Nov24-04, 04:26 PM
In certain terminal/painful medical circumstances I would agree that taking one's own life is too much of a mercy to call suicide. However, in general it causes too much pain to the relatives left behind to justify.
I knew a Dutch person once who said that the Dutch word for suicide meant literally 'self-murder'. This makes sense if you think of your life as something that you have no more right to dispose of than anybody else's.
the number 42
Nov24-04, 04:28 PM
Come to think of it 'suicide' means 'self-murder' from the Latin (?) sui=self and cide=murder.
the number 42
Nov26-04, 06:53 AM
Hi,
All of you who say that one does not have the right to commit suicide are a bunch of fascists, clothed in a veil of self-righteousness.
Any individual or society or religion or god that would prohibit suicide are just a bunch of sadists.
Try living the life of someone who wants to die everyday. Then, maybe you will understand.
juju
Heil.
If someone wants to die every day, they ought to getting every type of help that is available. Suicide is a last resort, not a first resort. Only if all has failed might suicide be reasonable. If suicide is self-murder, and murder is permissible in extreme cases of self-defence, only defending oneself against something worse that life might be acceptable e.g. excruciatingly painful terminal illness.
The other thing is, unless the person is an orphan with no friends or ties to the world, they are not just harming themselves but creating a world of emotional pain for those they leave behind.
Well, I'd better get back to flogging the servants - what fun!
Lots of love,
the number 42
think you approach the issue from a far to simplistic point of view, speaking as someone who has deliberated over his own death ( and i do not wish this to be a sob story for I am no longer in that realm) but speaking as a man who seriously deliberated over the issue and came to the conclusion that though it was the simple solution it was morally unacceptable, let me recount why
I went through deliberations for a week, with myself, I had no intention of either informing anyone of my thought, nor discussing it with anyone and though obviously fear did play a factor
Ultimately it boiled down to me sitting down and watching a program on North Korea, a BBC documentary, where they interviewed a man who ran a prison a gulag ( can you imagine a gulag in North Korea)
In that documentary i came to learn that in North Korea if you commit a crime or you are perceived to commit a crime whether in fact you may have been innocent is irrelevant, you go to these gulags, not content to punish the individual, the next generation of your family also receives a prison sentence and so to does the third generation
So the reality is, you can be born into a prison there by virtue of having a grandfather who may have been innocent yet you would still have to do a lifetime of hard cold labour
In the gulag they have the five member rule meaning that if you commit an offense the 5 families (these are family affairs in North Korea) surrounding your immediate proximity are also punished. Collective culpability is what it is referred to over there
When I though that things in my life were difficult to the point that I wished to take my life, i think of these people, people who never had a chance to start with in the first place and though some may succumb and opt out the majority persevere, whether it is due to lack of opportunity or not is irrelevant to me
I decided taking the easy the way out was just that, far to easy, things have a tendency to be bad and get worse, but no matter how bad it gets there is always worse
To take the easy way out and commit suicide in that context is not acceptable, perhaps excusable for euthanasia i would not argue that point, but for people who can walk and talk and are free
It is disrespectful, and should you wish to die in a disrespectful manner negating anything you meant as a human being, your life meaningless
then i would argue be my guest. you mean nothing
Sharat,
Just because one is worse off than another, this does not make it any better for the second. To think anything else is rather ghoulish.
It's like feeling better because someone is worse off than you. How UN-human.
If you think that some people in the world are really worse off than you (and they are), why don't you try to do something about it. Like toppling the North Korean government for instance.
As for the meaning of life. It has none. It is just a stage in the evolution/becoming of your being. It has no intrinsic value or meaning. It only has value or meaning in terms of what you learn from it and how it furthers your evolution/becoming. If you get nothing from it and it retards your evolution/becoming, it is useless.
juju
That is a little naive don’t you think, and that’s not what I suggest at all, its not about feeling better because someone else is worse off, its knowing that there are people out there and you need to continue. Nor was that the context at which I looked at the decision from. please read the post, I treat euthanasia separately.,
What you suggest is this, difficulty gives license to individuals to commit suicide, that’s what you suggest, they should not consider the disrespect that brings on individuals that do actually have it harder perhaps a million fold
If I cannot continue under these rather simplistic set of circumstance for example how does one born into prison continue
If you cannot ask that fundamental question then there is something wrong there, dont you think, it suggests to me that the individual, more than anything is opting for the easy solution the quick fix
Suppose we set up schools and allowed everyone to drop out as soon as they found it difficult
Human achievement and the meaning of life is all about striving through the things we find difficult. Nobody ever said life was meant to be easy. If you commit suicide it says two things
(1) your life has been defined by one action for that is how everyone will remember the individual, through his suicide
(2) your life didn’t mean enough to them to have one in the first place and you squandered it on an act and how sad is that, there are people that struggle to live on in the face of tremendous adversity and someone who commits suicide that has access to the internet for example just let go of something so valuable because they couldn’t handle life
and that makes me sad and what a waste and where is the meaning other than shame, my cousin committed suicide, I know his reasons and I know why, and every time I remember him I think what a waste.
Is that how you would be remembered even when it gets so difficult as you want to escape
Not me, I didn’t buy it and I’m still alive, and you know what, I got through that stage and it was the best decision I ever made
russ_watters
Nov28-04, 10:39 AM
If suicide is self-murder, and murder is permissible in extreme cases of self-defence... Actually, murder is by definition unlawful - so that answers the question pretty directly: suicide is illegal by definition. That's why its called suicide. In fact, in the dictionary, it says both that its illegal and that its a symptom of mental illness.
juju, if you can't argue without slinging insults, you should be arguing.
the number 42
Nov28-04, 12:45 PM
Actually, murder is by definition unlawful - so that answers the question pretty directly: suicide is illegal by definition.
:cry: 'He lived by the dictionary, and died by the dictionary' has a certain ring to it, I suppose. But it makes more sense to just call suicide 'self-killing', and sometimes killing is lawful and sometimes it aint. Heavens to Betsy, sometimes war's legal.
juju, if you can't argue without slinging insults, you should be arguing.
Good point, Russ: 'If you can't argue, you should argue' is without a doubt one of your stronger arguments. (Sorry, couldn't resist :tongue2: ).
BoulderHead
Nov28-04, 12:58 PM
In matters of legality the best dictionary would be a law dictionary. Here it is according to Black’s;
Suicide.
Self-destruction; the deliberate termination of one’s existence.
Attempted suicide is a crime in some jurisdictions, not in others. Some jurisdictions hold an attempted suicide which kills an innocent bystander or would-be rescuer to be murder, others manslaughter, others no crime. Some jurisdictions hold it to be murder for one person to persuade or aid another to commit suicide; some (by statute) make it manslaughter or a separate crime.
Unlike what russ_watters has said, the above legal definition does not label suicide as being illegal. Attempted suicide, on the other hand, is a crime only in some jurisdictions.
the number 42
Nov28-04, 01:09 PM
Amazing: attempting the crime can be illegal, but actually committing the crime isn't. On the other hand what would the punishment for the crime of murder be? Capital punishment in really bad cases, perhaps?
BoulderHead
Nov28-04, 01:42 PM
Haha, yes it is amazing that in some jurisdictions attemting suicide should be a crime. :tongue:
It has the smell of a stockyard to me.
abitofnothingleft
Nov28-04, 09:25 PM
Amazing: attempting the crime can be illegal, but actually committing the crime isn't. On the other hand what would the punishment for the crime of murder be? Capital punishment in really bad cases, perhaps?
its not that amazing....i mean its not illegal to commit suicide because there really isnt a punishment for it. you're dead. they cant punish you for it. :rolleyes:
russ_watters
Nov28-04, 09:54 PM
Unlike what russ_watters has said, the above legal definition does not label suicide as being illegal. Attempted suicide, on the other hand, is a crime only in some jurisdictions. Obviously, you can't be punished for a successful suicide. But it is still generally illegal (or, if not illegal, just written into contracts as a deal-breaker) and has implications such as voiding life insurance policies.
BoulderHead
Nov28-04, 10:32 PM
Obviously, you can't be punished for a successful suicide.
Too obvious to mention, I would say.
But it is still generally illegal
No, it definitely appears not to be illegal. Would you please provide the reader with your source for such information?
Besides the Law dictionary, here is something interesting from another source;
In the U.S. suicide has never been treated as a crime nor punished by property forfeiture or ignominious burial. (Some states listed it on the books as a felony but imposed no penalty.) Curiously, as of 1963, six states still considered attempted suicide a crime--North and South Dakota, Washington, New Jersey, Nevada, and Oklahoma. Of course they didn't take matters as seriously as the Roman emperor Hadrian, who in 117 AD declared attempted suicide by soldiers a form of desertion and made it--no joke this time--a capital offense.
Taken from; http://www.straightdope.com/columns/040326.html
(or, if not illegal, just written into contracts as a deal-breaker) and has implications such as voiding life insurance policies.
This is irrelevant, as will be stats on assisted suicide. Please provide support for your claim or kindly withdraw same.
the number 42
Nov29-04, 04:12 PM
Actually, murder is by definition unlawful - so that answers the question pretty directly: suicide is illegal by definition
Russ baby, kindly rise to the bait when I dangle it so generously under your nose:
...sometimes killing is lawful and sometimes it aint. Heavens to Betsy, sometimes war's legal
There. Now you've made me say 'Heavens to Betsy' twice. What are you trying to do to me?
russ_watters
Nov29-04, 10:36 PM
Russ baby, kindly rise to the bait when I dangle it so generously under your nose: [re: "...sometimes killing is lawful and sometimes it aint."] Well, you're not being consistent: you said the definition of suicide is self-murder, not self-killing. Killing isn't always wrong/illegal, murder is wrong/illegal by definition.
Obviously, you can't be punished for a successful suicide. But it is still generally illegal (or, if not illegal, just written into contracts as a deal-breaker) and has implications such as voiding life insurance policies.
how come those who attempt suicide and fail then are not prosecuted for attempted murder? your claim of it being illegal is more of your opinion of what it should be rather then what is practiced as law...
russ_watters
Nov30-04, 02:03 PM
how come those who attempt suicide and fail then are not prosecuted for attempted murder? your claim of it being illegal is more of your opinion of what it should be rather then what is practiced as law... Murder and suicide are two different things, so why would you prosecute someone for attempted murder if they attempted suicide? That's like prosecuting someone for auto-theft when they stole money from a house. Both are stealing, but two different kinds.
Besides, Boulderhead provided evidence (well, he asserted it, but I'm inclined to believe him) that attempted/successful suicide is illegal (ie, written in law) in many places - it just isn't prosecuted. Some quick research shows that the laws/punishments against it have waned in recent history and were much more severe in the past.
My argument is based mostly on the definition. It is illegal by definition. From the dictionary.com: 1. The act of taking one's own life voluntary and intentionally; self-murder; specifically (Law), the felonious killing of one's self...[emphasis added] To be fair, though, most of the definitions don't make the distincition between "killing" and "murder."
The reason, I think, attempted suicide isn't prosecuted is that it is recognized as a sign of illness and its best to treat it rather than punish it.
One caveat here (for all): please don't mistake a philosophical arguement for a practical one. The fact that suicide is unlawful by definition has nothing to do with whether or not it is actually prosecuted - that's a practical matter. Either way though, there are legal implications for it.
BoulderHead
Nov30-04, 07:57 PM
My argument is based mostly on the definition. It is illegal by definition. From the dictionary.com:
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If suicide is illegal by definition simply because dictionary.com had a line saying so then to remain consistent you must accept that patriotism and nationalism are synonymous (by definition) because dictionary.com (your source) says so, lol. So, either this talk of “illegal by definition” is meaningless prattle (in which case you shouldn’t be prattling on so) or you should now by all that constitutes good manners concede my point denied in that other thread. :biggrin:
One caveat here (for all): please don't mistake a philosophical arguement for a practical one. The fact that suicide is unlawful by definition has nothing to do with whether or not it is actually prosecuted - that's a practical matter. Either way though, there are legal implications for it.
Please don’t mistake a [near] meaningless game of words (in this case centered on the words “unlawful by definition”) with an actual legal state of affairs. In any event, when dealing with legal issues it would be an error to give preference over an actual legal definition to something from dictionary.com (which is why I provided one for the reader). Now, your continued claim that suicide is still generally illegal appears from my research to be quite in error, and so again I must ask where is your support for this assertion? Certainly you are going to be forced to look beyond the borders of the United States for support of it.
Besides, Boulderhead provided evidence (well, he asserted it, but I'm inclined to believe him)…
Perhaps you would be inclined to believe me when I say aloud that you are telling this forum untruth? :wink:
Actually, murder is by definition unlawful - so that answers the question pretty directly: suicide is illegal by definition. That's why its called suicide. In fact, in the dictionary, it says both that its illegal and that its a symptom of mental illness.
Murder and suicide are two different things
your first comment led me to believe you associated the two as sharing the same definition, but i have to agree with BH...you can't use dictionary.com when it comes to legal definitions. can you provide any legal evidence that suicide is illegal? like i said before, if it was illegal, those who attempt it would receive some kind of reprimandation or mandatory treatment..i highly doubt those definitions were written from a judge who ultimately interprets the law in situations like these...
as for being an illness-i have to agree, it is a desperate state of mind that does need treatment.
Hi,
The argument on the legality issue is not the point. Many things are illegal that should be legal and many things are legal that should be illegal.
The real point is does anyone, and I mean anyone, have the right to tell you that you must go on living even if you do not want to.
I don't think so.
juju
russ_watters
Dec2-04, 05:07 PM
your first comment led me to believe you associated the two as sharing the same definition.... I'm not going to scroll back, but someone posted the entemology that suicide literally means "self-murder." Thus they are similar, but not exactly the same. if the two words were exactly the same, they could be used interchangeably and clearly, they can't be. Boulderhead - that actually makes it a great analogue to patriotism vs nationalism: similar, but not exactly the same, so not interchangeable. But I'm not going to play the "how similar does a synonym have to be?" game with either of you - they can't be used interchangeably and I will split no more hairs on exactly what the difference is. ...but i have to agree with BH...you can't use dictionary.com when it comes to legal definitions. Dictionary.com is a metadictionary, and the definition I quoted actually comes Webster's. I regard Webster's pretty highly when it comes to putting words in context and when it says "(Law)" that means its the legal definition. But if you have a 'legal dictionary,' that certainly would be a better source. can you provide any legal evidence that suicide is illegal? like i said before, if it was illegal, those who attempt it would receive some kind of reprimandation or mandatory treatment... Certainly. PA Code (http://www.pacode.com/secure/data/055/chapter5100/s5100.84.html): Persons who may be subject to involuntary emergency examination and treatment.
The standards of clear and present danger may be met when a person has made a threat of harm to self or others; has made a threat to commit suicide...
1) When a person clearly articulates or demonstrates an intention to commit suicide or mutilate himself and has committed an overt action in furtherance of the intended action; or
(2) When the person has actually performed such acts.
russ_watters
Dec2-04, 05:17 PM
Ok, I might as well: Dictionary.com is a metadictionary, and the definition I quoted actually comes Webster's. I regard Webster's pretty highly when it comes to putting words in context and when it says "(Law)" that means its the legal definition. But if you have a 'legal dictionary,' that certainly would be a better source. Here is a "LEGAL DICTIONARY (http://dictionary.law.com/default2.asp?typed=suicide&type=1)" and here is what it has to say: the intentional killing of oneself. Ironically, in most states suicide is a crime, but if successful there is no one to punish. However, attempted suicide can be a punishable crime (seldom charged against one surviving the attempt). "Assisted suicide" is usually treated as a crime, either specifically (as in Michigan) or as a form of homicide (second degree murder or manslaughter), even when done as a kindness to a loved one who is terminally ill and in great pain.[emphasis added] The hairsplitting is getting on my nerves, but well gosh, it looks like I can have it both ways! :biggrin:
Boulderhead, the definition from Blacks that you posted says nothing at all about whether suicide itself is illegal or not, so it does not support your assertion that it says it is not.
BoulderHead
Dec2-04, 07:01 PM
Boulderhead - that actually makes it a great analogue to patriotism vs nationalism: similar, but not exactly the same, so not interchangeable.
What then is the difference? You want to go by definition, black in white, read it and weep.
But I'm not going to play the "how similar does a synonym have to be?" game with either of you –
Lol, that’s quite a laugh considering you are the one now splitting those hairs. Synonymous no longer means synonymous, despite the fact our beloved dictionary says so, hmmm. It is most interesting to see someone who enjoys hammering so loudly and so frequently about dictionary definitions reduced to saying something like that.
…they can't be used interchangeably and I will split no more hairs on exactly what the difference is.
And here is of course what it amounts to; you have completely avoided any meaningful attempt to demonstrate an actual difference. In fact, it is readily apparent you are the one who has invoked the hairsplitting game. I am encouraged you have decided to stop, as it was a [not so] clever tactic from the start, haha.
The hairsplitting is getting on my nerves, but well gosh, it looks like I can have it both ways!
If it’s getting on your nerves then be more careful in the future to not make unsupported claims and expect people to simply bow and nod. As for thinking you can actually have it both ways; not really, the rest of your post had nothing to do at all with the synonyms spoken of earlier, recall you refused to ‘play that game’.
Additionally, you made the claim that suicide is generally illegal but have only provided one [poor] example. I was not aware that general rules were derived from single observations, but then I'm not much a scientist either, haha. Now, I understand you are highly Americentric from previous discussions and so I have decided I will bow and nod to the correctness of your assertion as soon as you actually support it by showing a majority of the North American States do in fact hold it to be illegal. By taking the time to support what you say you may demonstrate fact is on your side as opposed to simply claiming they are.
Boulderhead, the definition from Blacks that you posted says nothing at all about whether suicide itself is illegal or not, so it does not support your assertion that it says it is not.
Well then why not show where the PA code says it is?
Try some of these for starters;
The United Kingdom decriminalized suicide and attempted suicide in the Suicide Act of 1961. By the early 1990s only two USA states still listed suicide as a crime, and these have since removed that classification. Increasingly, the term commit suicide is being consciously avoided, as it implies that suicide is a crime by equating it with other acts that are committed, such as murder or burglary.
Taken from; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide#Legal_views_of_suicide
In America until recently suicide was a criminal offense in most jurisdictions, often characterized as a crime of moral turpitude. Recently, however, almost all states, Utah among them, have decriminalized suicide and attempted suicide.
Taken from; http://www.utahbar.org/rules_ops_pols/ethics_opinions/op_95.html
Until then, anyone found guilty of attempted suicide in Canada – and in many other countries – could face jail time. The federal government decriminalized suicide and attempted suicide in 1972.
Taken from; http://www.focusonals.com/the_fight_for_the_right_to_die.htm
Oh yes, patriotism and nationalism remain synonymous (by definition, of course).
Increasingly, the term commit suicide is being consciously avoided, as it implies that suicide is a crime by equating it with other acts that are committed, such as murder or burglary. ~wikipedia
(seldom charged against one surviving the attempt) ~law.com
hmmm, Russ, I would be curious to know what you think of this definition in the game of hair splitting? the fact and reality is, the USA has many laws that are never enforced:
Pennsylvania Dumb Laws (http://www.dumblaws.com/laws.php?site=laws&cid=184®ion=38)
loseyourname
Dec2-04, 10:12 PM
Wasn't this supposed to be a discussion about whether or not a person has the natural right to commit suicide, not the legal right?
loseyourname
Dec2-04, 10:15 PM
An interesting formulation of natural rights was discussed in an ethics class I took a while back. I can't remember who made the argument, but it was made that any individual has the right to do whatever he wants with his person or property so long as he does not infringe upon the liberty of others to do what they want with their person of property. This is common, but the interesting part was that he included any act that permanently restricts one's own liberty (such as suicide or selling oneself into slavery) as an act one does not have the right to commit, the argument being that you cannot ever change your mind.
honestrosewater
Dec3-04, 02:15 AM
This is common, but the interesting part was that he included any act that permanently restricts one's own liberty (such as suicide or selling oneself into slavery) as an act one does not have the right to commit, the argument being that you cannot ever change your mind.
That is a very interesting twist. However, assuming
1) the relevant liberties/rights are natural or inalienable rights,
2) natural or inalienable rights apply to all persons and only to persons,
3) the definition of a person includes "having life or being alive", i.e. once a person dies, they are no longer a person,
slavery and suicide are different because a slave is still a person, while a "dead person" is not a person; Slavery entails a contradiction in the system, while death does not entail any contradiction. Choosing slavery is different from choosing death.
BoulderHead
Dec3-04, 11:53 AM
An interesting formulation of natural rights was discussed in an ethics class I took a while back. I can't remember who made the argument, but it was made that any individual has the right to do whatever he wants with his person or property so long as he does not infringe upon the liberty of others to do what they want with their person of property. This is common, but the interesting part was that he included any act that permanently restricts one's own liberty (such as suicide or selling oneself into slavery) as an act one does not have the right to commit, the argument being that you cannot ever change your mind.
The problem occurs between the two boldface segments wherein restriction is first strictly limited to others, yet in the second part restriction is placed on self. There is exclusivity between others and self which makes holding both of those viewpoints simultaneously a fair example of doublethink.
learningphysics
Dec3-04, 12:37 PM
"Life is good. Death is bad"
This seems to be the commonly held assumption. But upon inspection, life and death are seen to be morally neutral. However pain and pleasure are NOT morally neutral.
honestrosewater
Dec3-04, 01:27 PM
The problem occurs between the two boldface segments wherein restriction is first strictly limited to others, yet in the second part restriction is placed on self.
I don't see it as a problem, it is a condition, or an exception to the rule. A more common exception is
so long as he does not infringe upon the liberty of others to do what they want with their person of property.
Hi,
If you tell someone that they don't have the right to die by their own choice, then they have the right to tell you you can not live by your own choice.
juju
the number 42
Dec4-04, 10:32 AM
..you said the definition of suicide is self-murder, not self-killing.
Russ, I know you revere me now and will think less of me when I tell you this, but I was wrong; suicide does in fact mean self-killing. The Oxford English Dictionary says of the suffix cide:
1. a. F. -cide, L. -cda cutter, killer, slayer, f. cædre, in comp. -cdre to cut, kill, as in homicda, parricda, mtricda, frtricda, sorricda, tyrannicda, etc., slayer of a man, father, mother, brother, sister, tyrant, etc.; also lapi(di)cda, stone-cutter, etc. Most of the L. words having the sense ‘slayer, murderer’, have come down into Romanic and English, where new combinations have also been formed on the same type, notably regicide and suicide; filicide has also been used; and many occasional forms appear as jocose nonce-words, e.g. apicide, avicide, canicide, ceticide, muricide, perdricide, tauricide, vaticide, verbicide; or, still more ludicrously, birdicide, prenticecide, suitorcide, etc. Also applied to preparations destructive of animal or vegetable life, as algicide, fungicide, germicide, insecticide, pesticide".
Sorry about the mistake. My only defence is that my 'definition' was off the top of my head as an afterthought to a post I had just written. I promise not to be bad in future, and will be your friend for the next week if you like.
the number 42
Dec4-04, 10:34 AM
If you tell someone that they don't have the right to die by their own choice, then they have the right to tell you you can not live by your own choice.
Juju, just curious, but are you planning to pop your clogs?
Juju, just curious, but are you planning to pop your clogs?
I've tried a few times in the last 35 years but never succeeded. Every once in a while I pick up the .45 and consider it. Haven't been able to yet.
If I had the proper drugs, I might just succeed.
juju
russ_watters
Dec4-04, 06:51 PM
Wasn't this supposed to be a discussion about whether or not a person has the natural right to commit suicide, not the legal right? Yes, it was.... An interesting formulation of natural rights was discussed in an ethics class I took a while back. I can't remember who made the argument, but it was made that any individual has the right to do whatever he wants with his person or property so long as he does not infringe upon the liberty of others to do what they want with their person of property.That's Locke. (and Boulderhead - if its a contradiction, its one that has worked quite well, as it is the basis of the US system of protected rights) This is common, but the interesting part was that he included any act that permanently restricts one's own liberty (such as suicide or selling oneself into slavery) as an act one does not have the right to commit, the argument being that you cannot ever change your mind. That is one of two reasons why suicide would be morally wrong (and the same as the reason an "elected dictator" is an oxymoron): the other is that it does infringe on the rights of others - someone has to scrape you off the sidewalk after you jump! :biggrin: That is a very interesting twist. However, assuming
1) the relevant liberties/rights are natural or inalienable rights,
2) natural or inalienable rights apply to all persons and only to persons,
3) the definition of a person includes "having life or being alive", i.e. once a person dies, they are no longer a person,
slavery and suicide are different because a slave is still a person, while a "dead person" is not a person; Slavery entails a contradiction in the system, while death does not entail any contradiction. Choosing slavery is different from choosing death. Well, slavery is now seen as contradiction in the system, but at the time was justified by its proponents based on the belief that blacks were not people.
In any case, your example is interesting: jumping off a building would be immoral; hitting the ground wouldn't be. Russ, I know you revere me now and will think less of me when I tell you this, but I was wrong; suicide does in fact mean self-killing.
Sorry about the mistake. Ehh, no biggie - whether the entemology has cide meaning "kill" or "murder" or 8 different kinds of killing at the same time, the entemology is just the history and definitions evolve. But look what you started! :surprised
BoulderHead
Dec4-04, 11:44 PM
Originally Posted by loseyourname
Wasn't this supposed to be a discussion about whether or not a person has the natural right to commit suicide, not the legal right?
Yes, it was. But accurate content is also an important consideration. Some people require simple facts be beaten into them before they stop telling falsehoods and remain politely (and tellingly) silent...
Originally Posted by russ_watters
Boulderhead - if its a contradiction, its one that has worked quite well, as it is the basis of the US system of protected rights.
Hmmm, the quoted material you put this below was not what I was finding problematic. In any event, what you bring up is at best unintentionally irrelevant and so I’ll pass on responding directly to it.
Honestrosewater,
The first part tells us it is only the liberty of others that may put a damper on the individual. But, this is clearly not the case when the second part is introduced because the individual’s own liberty now puts a damper on his own liberty (fascinating!). My ‘problem’ is; how are both ideas held simultaneously without engaging in doublethink when one clearly will not suffer the other?
It was said “he included any act that permanently restricts one’s own liberty…” but I do not see where it was included, nor do I see anything in the first part that might suggest or even allow for the second part. I am not saying it is impossible to think this way, but to do so should actually require a revision of the first statement so as to at least allow the second to be derived. Failing to do so, doublethink occurs (and does, all the time).
honestrosewater
Dec5-04, 05:35 AM
BoulderHead,
Right, so revise the first statement. The state cannot infringe on a person's liberties except when...
russ,
BTW I wasn't saying that attempted suicide is immoral. I'm still figuring out the correct argument.
the number 42
Dec5-04, 08:40 AM
I've tried a few times in the last 35 years but never succeeded. Every once in a while I pick up the .45 and consider it. Haven't been able to yet.
If I had the proper drugs, I might just succeed.
juju
Putting aside your right to decorate your apartment with your brains, why the hell would you want to? I have the right to see Broadway musicals, but its not one I'm going to fight very hard for.
Putting aside your right to decorate your apartment with your brains, why the hell would you want to? I have the right to see Broadway musicals, but its not one I'm going to fight very hard for.
As far as I am concerned, most of the time my life appears to me as a jail cell, cesspool, torture chamber, and insane asylum.
I have a whole series of physical, psychological, emotional and mental problems. The last doctor I asked for medicines threw me out of his practice and denied me the use of his clinic because I dared to ask for what I needed. This wasn't the first time I asked for medicine from some doctor and was denied.
I am not saying that I can't deal with it anymore. As long as I am alive, there is no choice. However, it gets more difficult as time goes on and I am really getting fed up with it.
So, I have two possibilities, suicide or keep on truckin'.
juju
russ_watters
Dec5-04, 01:27 PM
So, I have two possibilities, suicide or keep on truckin'.
juju No, you have three choices: suicide, keep on truckin', or try a different approach. I strongly recommend the third.
the number 42
Dec5-04, 04:37 PM
No, you have three choices: suicide, keep on truckin', or try a different approach. I strongly recommend the third.
Juju, for once I agree with Russ, except that he probably means you should join the Jehovah's Witnesses or something.
Really sorry you feel the way you do. How would your life need to be different in order for you to feel happier?
No, you have three choices: suicide, keep on truckin', or try a different approach. I strongly recommend the third.
I have tried many different third approaches like ceremonial magic, mysticism, meditation, religion, hard work, introspection, self-criticism, and many more.
They don't work. None of them work.
Really sorry you feel the way you do. How would your life need to be different in order for you to feel happier?
Since my experience with doctors precludes any medicine, the only thing that seems to help are illegal drugs and they are expensive, hard to get, and of course, illegal.
juju
learningphysics
Dec5-04, 07:33 PM
I have tried many different third approaches like ceremonial magic, mysticism, meditation, religion, hard work, introspection, self-criticism, and many more.
They don't work. None of them work.
Since my experience with doctors precludes any medicine, the only thing that seems to help are illegal drugs and they are expensive, hard to get, and of course, illegal.
juju
Juju, do you enjoy video games? For me, it helps a lot, gets my mind off any troubles, at least for a few hours. Anyway, just remember that your unhappiness is not your fault. Some people are just born with with a different brain chemistry. Can you see a different doctor?
the number 42
Dec6-04, 11:07 AM
I have tried many different third approaches like ceremonial magic, mysticism, meditation, religion, hard work, introspection, self-criticism, and many more.
They don't work. None of them work.
Since my experience with doctors precludes any medicine, the only thing that seems to help are illegal drugs and they are expensive, hard to get, and of course, illegal.
juju
Okay, they sound like the kinds of things you might try in order to achieve something. With respect, what I asked was how your life would have to be different in order for you to feel happier e.g. would you like to own a golden retriever? Or would you like to have a view of XYZ from your window?
Hi Guys,
I would first like to thank you all for your concern. I appreciate it much.
At present I really don't want anything. All my desire and will is focused on not having to experience that which I don't wish to experience.
My experiences in consciousness and awareness have led be to believe that I will exist after physical death. I have experienced other realities (only for a few seconds at a time) and these experiences were in many ways more real than my present life.
This is really the only path I see open to me. Everything you mention might work for someone else, however it all seems like a trivial distraction to me.
Thanks again.
juju
the number 42
Dec6-04, 06:39 PM
At present I really don't want anything. All my desire and will is focused on not having to experience that which I don't wish to experience.
It works better if you put your back into experiencing those things that you wish to.
I have experienced other realities (only for a few seconds at a time) and these experiences were in many ways more real than my present life.
More real than your present life? How do you spend the day? What do you do/have you done for laughs? Its your right to avoid the question if you want to.
This is really the only path I see open to me. Everything you mention might work for someone else, however it all seems like a trivial distraction to me.
Doh! Trivial distractions rule! What do you think we are all doing on PF? Curing the world of gravity?
BoulderHead
Dec6-04, 06:44 PM
Hey Juju,
I don't know what to say really, but I hope things do improve for you.
-BH
honestrosewater
Dec7-04, 12:45 AM
juju,
What do you think is "the life worth living"? Or what do you picture life after death to be like?
It works better if you put your back into experiencing those things that you wish to.
I have tried that, but the voices in my head (and body) sort of make it impossible. Although I do at times continue to try.
More real than your present life? How do you spend the day? What do you do/have you done for laughs? Its your right to avoid the question if you want to.
I get up. Smoke some cigarettes. Build my wood fire. Go out into the woods surrounding my cabin and gather wood. I saw, chop, and stack the wood. Go to my friends place and check email, do web surfing, and check the forums. Eat some lunch during this time. Go for a walk. Read or watch tv or listen to the radio or do more web surfing. Rest a while. Eat dinner. Feed the fire. Read or watch tv or listen to the radio some more. Have a snack. Go to sleep. That's my normal day. O, I talk to myself a lot. For laughs I tell myself jokes sometimes.
If you wonder where I get my money, I am on disability since I am really messed up.
juju
juju,
What do you think is "the life worth living"? Or what do you picture life after death to be like?
To tell the truth on these questions I have no idea. But, I will make a try at answering.
Life worth living would have two components. One is that I would enjoy it. The other is that it would have some worth in both the present and future.
I often think that the only world I could be comfortable in is one in which I had the final say on the general rules of society.
As for life after death, the way I see it is that death is the first direction home. The end of the beginning. If I actually exist after death, I hope I can experience it fully as a unique adventure into other realities.
juju
karen03grae
Dec7-04, 06:54 PM
I do not know how to post a question!!! Help!!! I will check this.
honestrosewater
Dec8-04, 04:39 AM
Life worth living would have two components. One is that I would enjoy it. The other is that it would have some worth in both the present and future.
I often think that the only world I could be comfortable in is one in which I had the final say on the general rules of society.
As for life after death, the way I see it is that death is the first direction home. The end of the beginning. If I actually exist after death, I hope I can experience it fully as a unique adventure into other realities.
Well, I haven't found any reason to believe in life after death, so I haven't thought much about what it may actually be like. When I was 5 I imagined heaven as a huge playground on clouds instead of on grass and dirt. That's probably the gist of what my current image of heaven would be.
I have thought about what makes life worth living and have decided basically that life is like any other commodity in that it has no inherent worth but is assigned worth through use. That is, the process of living assigns life worth like the process of trading or warming assigns your firewood worth. Perhaps that sounds kind of sappy :biggrin: (get it- firewood, sappy, er, yeah)
Anyway, that doesn't mean your life is worth living, of course, you still have to evaluate its worth. It's a frightening process sometimes, for me at least, because it introduces the possibility that your life is worthless. When I evaluate my life I just try to be honest with myself and remember that I'm not contemplating action, just evaluating worth. Lots of good things can come from those evaluations.
I hope you would talk to someone before contemplating suicide. I don't know your situation, and I understand if you don't want to talk about it, but you can PM me if you ever want to. :smile: I have some problems similar to what you briefly mentioned, so maybe we can even help each other.
the number 42
Dec8-04, 01:48 PM
I have tried that, but the voices in my head (and body) sort of make it impossible. Although I do at times continue to try.
"Taking into consideration the many voice-hearers who were living successfully in society and were not considered sick, Romme concluded that hearing voices need not be the direct cause of disability"
http://www.mentalhealth.org/publications/allpubs/KEN-01-0108/resonance.asp
I get up. Smoke some cigarettes. Build my wood fire. Go out into the woods surrounding my cabin and gather wood. I saw, chop, and stack the wood. Go to my friends place and check email, do web surfing, and check the forums. Eat some lunch during this time. Go for a walk. Read or watch tv or listen to the radio or do more web surfing. Rest a while. Eat dinner. Feed the fire. Read or watch tv or listen to the radio some more. Have a snack. Go to sleep. That's my normal day. O, I talk to myself a lot. For laughs I tell myself jokes sometimes
Sounds like you have the nice view I was asking about earlier. Did you choose to move there for some peace, or were you born there?
You obviously have some intelligence, but I wonder how much you get to flex it. Do you study, or has this been interupted? Have you tried distance-learning?
Hope you don't mind me asking questions.
the number 42
Dec8-04, 01:51 PM
I have thought about what makes life worth living and have decided basically that life is like any other commodity in that it has no inherent worth but is assigned worth through use. That is, the process of living assigns life worth like the process of trading or warming assigns your firewood worth.
Interesting idea. Have you read Victor Frankl? Man's Search for Meaning is excellent. There are a few quotes here.
www.geocities.com/~webwinds/frankl/quotes.htm
honestrosewater
Dec8-04, 02:50 PM
Interesting idea. Have you read Victor Frankl? Man's Search for Meaning is excellent. There are a few quotes here.
www.geocities.com/~webwinds/frankl/quotes.htm
I actually bought that book for my sister after reading the back matter. I've never read it though.
Sounds like you have the nice view I was asking about earlier. Did you choose to move there for some peace, or were you born there?
You obviously have some intelligence, but I wonder how much you get to flex it. Do you study, or has this been interupted? Have you tried distance-learning?
Hope you don't mind me asking questions.
The place I live in belongs to some friends of mine. It is way out in the wooded hills. I live here and help them in their work at times.
I have a BS in physics. Went to graduate school for 3 months, but quit. They weren't teaching me anything new. The rest of my education was provided by life and my brain.
I hope you would talk to someone before contemplating suicide
I have been contemplating suicide for a long time. it has become a permanent backgraound fixture. I guess it says something that I have not actually done it by now.
I wouldn't say my life is totally worthless. Some of the things I have done I am sure are considered by others, with whom I have done them or for whom I have done them, as being worthwhile.
I guess I can't say that it is totally worthless to me either. At least I have become a somewhat intelligent, conscious, and aware entity. That has to count for something.
juju
honestrosewater
Dec8-04, 05:32 PM
I have been contemplating suicide for a long time. it has become a permanent backgraound fixture.
Surround yourself with things that make you happy. That's the only advice I can give without knowing your situation. I know, find the TOE, that should keep you busy :biggrin:
I know, find the TOE, that should keep you busy :biggrin:
Funny you should mention that. It is one of the ways I spend some of my time.
I have been considering various conceptual frameworks for a TOE for many years now. I am on at least my tenth iteration. (without any of the real heavy math)
juju
honestrosewater
Dec9-04, 05:34 PM
I have been considering various conceptual frameworks for a TOE for many years now. I am on at least my tenth iteration. (without any of the real heavy math)
Great, if you succeed and become rich & famous you'll remember us, right? :biggrin:
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