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Mar27-10, 07:04 AM
I had something with my boss/friend. And now?
Probably not what you want to hear, but my suggestion: get over it.
You are married, she doesn't want a relationship with you (for whatever reason) and you have to work with each other daily.
Clearly, there is some kind of physical attraction, and it may be hard to resist that. But nothing happened for 6.5 years, and you both lived. So if you stop now, you'll both live as well.
Unless you are planning to leave your wife and in the worst/best case scenario be prepared to give up your job, in the long run it will be better to stay colleagues at work and close friends outside of that, but nothing more.
Good advice. Forget the boss.
One made a promise to one's wife.