That is basically my point. i'm saying that being "shy" with women stems from being shallow. by shallow i mean placing a value on looks or observed interactions of a person as opposed to actually talking to and getting to know the individual. that is what i consider to be an extrapolation of the word "shallow" and therefore serves as the basis for me making this thread.
TheStatutoryApe pretty much nailed my point. you can look at what i wrote and what he wrote and use them to make sense of what i'm saying if i was too difficult.