How to propose to my GF of 1.5 months?

turbo

This is a beautiful place!!!

Drakkith

Why the big fuss about marriage? In my opinion a true lasting relationship shouldn't be any different before or after marriage, so why rush? What do you gain? Certainly not love. But you can end up losing so much...
And considering she will be gone for nearly a year...I think proposal will simply artificially bind you two together with no benefit.

However, if it really means that much to you, I suggest talking to her and telling her you were thinking of proposing and see what she thinks about marriage at this point in your relationship. It could be that she wants nothing to do with it right now and would much rather wait. And when I say talk about it, I mean TALK about it. Not for 3 minutes, but for like 3 hours. Go into details. Get to know each others feelings about everything. If you can't sustain a lengthy conversation about it, then it's likely you two aren't close enough emotionally yet to be engaged.

Of course, that's just my opinion. And I am single...so take it for what you will.

Monique

Beautiful picture and beautiful place! Maybe some day..

Aero51

You wait at least year and quit acting like an idiot. Anyone who tells you otherwise is flat out dumb.

lisab

Don't sugar-coat it, Aero - tell us how you really feel .

Aero51

Well it all started when I was a young boy....

lisab

jduster

my cousin got married to a woman after 3 weeks of meeting her. it was just the right time for them. they now have 2 kids.

Drakkith

A friend of mine got married within 2 weeks of meeting her husband. They are now both in prison because of each other. The details are not appropriate for this forum.