Have a crush on the postdoc in lab...

Lisa!

That's a good suggestion since that doesn't cause any damage but you know that sounds normal to me. Maybe that' because she's sorta frustrated about what she's doing right now and needs support and help, and that makes her interested in authority figures. I think there's not much to worry about because the feelings go away as soon as she finds herself and self-confidence. But yeah, I guess a therapist can help her to solve her problem sooner.

nucleargirl

I've been trying to put myself off him cos he's taken... its kind of working. but today I saw him standing there with that look on his face... like looking for something expectantly. looking at me. I don't know what he's looking for.

Gad

Be prepared! Load your guns, don't allow him to take you down!


Ignore it. :)

nucleargirl

I don't want to... like all day, whenever I see him all I want is to see him smile...
so when I talk to him I feel so boring cos I think I'm boring him...
I feel super boring now. I'm afraid of presenting at the group meeting because he will be there. I'm afraid of looking super stupid in front of him.
and I'm scared other people will notice me staring at him. so embarrassing.

nucleargirl

I wish I was fun, and always know the right things to say, and interesting.
I wish I was more easy-going.

Evo

He might have picked up on your attraction to him and be afraid of you.

My advice? Leave him alone, forget about him and get back to your job.