Anxiety: Causes & How to Help a Friend

[JERGLOVE]

I have a friend who suffers from severe anxiety, her mind tells her that bad things are going to happen, like sicknesses, or other things, and she sees actual pictures in her mind of bad things that she is afraid of happening. She knows that this is unrealistic, but is so afraid that if she doesn't take it seriously, the bad things will happen. How does this come about? And is there anything I can do to help her?

 

[Evo]

I have a friend who suffers from severe anxiety, her mind tells her that bad things are going to happen, like sicknesses, or other things, and she sees actual pictures in her mind of bad things that she is afraid of happening. She knows that this is unrealistic, but is so afraid that if she doesn't take it seriously, the bad things will happen. How does this come about? And is there anything I can do to help her?

Most likely a chemical imbalance in her brain, it can usually be controlled with Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI's). You should suggest that she discuss her anxiety and fears with a doctor.

 

[Mickey]

It sounds like she is close to suffering from paranoia as well. Anxiety is a constant feeling of being in imminent danger, but paranoia is a judgment call that an unrealistic scenario of danger is emanent.

For example, constantly worrying about becoming sick from eating poorly is anxiety, and may be corrected with the help of a change in diet. A paranoid equivalent is, "someone is trying to poison me." So, if she feels that she must take an unrealistic scenario seriously, that she knows is unrealistic, she's not strictly paranoid, but may be approaching borderline.

I am guessing that, if the anxiety is as severe as you say, and she can "see actual pictures in her mind," then a psychologist may try to treat her symptoms with a dopamine inhibitor, or an antipsychotic.

I have had some experience with the psychiatric pharmaceutical industry, and I recommend that, if your friend is offered antipsychotics, that she accept them as a last resort. You see, there are many many different kinds of antipsychotics, and in my opinion psychologists these days are pretty cavalier with using the wide variety of options to experiment on their patients to see which one works best. They do this because they are told that the drugs are safer than previous generations of drugs, which may true. But, in my opinion, it still amounts to treating the patient's mind and body as a mini-laboratory.

The patient can get caught in a really unhelpful situation if she does not stand up for herself early and say, "no, I don't want drugs," or "these drugs aren't worth the side effects." Because once she's on drugs, the psychologist will actively discourage her from quitting treatment and even try to convince her to try a higher dosage to see if it will work. That's not a road anyone should go down hastily.

Anyway, I don't mean to rant or anything. But please send my recommendation that she try talking to a doctor who will not push drugs on her first. It's very sad to see someone's already troubled life worsened by an insensitive practitioner, who doesn't know what it's like to be on the medication they offer.

 

[hypnagogue]

Asking what the cause of anxiety is is a pretty broad question, and the answer almost certainly isn't as simple as "mere" chemical imbalances that can be treated neatly and easily with drugs (though of course it is possible that that may be a contributing factor in your friend's case). The type of answer you get for this question will depend on exactly what kind of anxiety you're talking about and what level of abstraction you choose to focus on, etc.

Anyhow, what is more important than getting into the nuances of that question is finding an effective treatment that can help alleviate your friend's suffering. Drugs may be an effective option, but certainly not the only option and certainly not the very first option you would want to look in to.

Cognitive behavioral therapy has been shown to be an effective treatment for anxiety problems. It does not involve medication, but rather involves a therapist working with a patient on changing her patterns of thought and behavior. I would suggest that you start by looking for available cognitive behavioral therapy practitioners in your area and go from there. Of course, it may turn out that what is most effective for your friend is a combination of CBT and medication, but CBT should really be the foundational aspect of treatment and medication a possible supplement, rather than vice versa. If nothing else, CBT teaches skills that can last indefinitely, which can help minimize the frequency and severity of relapses after treatment.

 

[Evo]

I have to disagree, no amount of therapy can reverse a chemical imbalance. Unfortunately there is no way to determine if there is a chemical imbalance except trying treatment.

For symptoms as severe as in the case of the OP's friend, the best course of action, IMHO is to try SSRI's. If the symptoms are very mild, cognitive therapy might help them cope with the problem, but they will still have the problem.

If you've ever known someone with a real chemical imbalance you would not be saying to put off treatment. Many of the members here are only able to lead normal lives thanks to medication.

 

[Schrodinger's Dog]

I myself have a chemical imbalance that induces problems, and I know from experience, 20 years in fact that therapy does nothing, I got therapy and then passed on to others because my condtion wasn't accepted as anything but a mental problem, and nothing in the way of help to be frank...Until I kicked up a fuss and demanded medication finally, but I'm exceptional, in a year my entire life was turned around by medication, I no longer had 3 months of every year where I would hibernate, sometimes quite literally, but it's different for everyone, and my condition wasn't accepted as a medical or physiological one until NIMH and various other bodies proved it was.

I know how my condition makes me feel and I knew it for years, but could get nothing in the way of real treatment. I'm an exception though, so try getting a referal from your doctor, hopefully you won't have to wait 20 years for a treatment like I did.

I take medication for six months now and the side effects are mitigated by experimentation. 6 months free and six months on is better than the crap I was fed for 20 years by people who didn't and couldn't have known any better.

Anyway that's just me, advise your friend to seek help, what's the worst that can happen? Anxiety can be causal of their causal relation to there personal history, it can be causal of an imbalance, but the only people who can tell you that are clinical psychologists. Don't make the mistake I did and let your well being slide.

 

[Mickey]

I have to disagree, no amount of therapy can reverse a chemical imbalance. Unfortunately there is no way to determine if there is a chemical imbalance except trying treatment.

If changes in environment or behavior are somehow impossible, perhaps. Anxiety usually persists for a reason. A patient may be in a school, career, relationship, and/or other circumstances that are consistently troubling but seemingly unchangeable. Factor in other directly chemical phenomena, such as food, air, and water quality, and one could have a perfect anxiety storm.

Everybody has different chemical balances. There is no standard of balance by which to measure an imbalance. We're stimulated by different things, people, and places. We fit better in different environments and are suited for different tasks.

New neurotransmitters are still being discovered as we speak, so there are undeniably other chemical balances that we're ignoring. The only way to make a science out of psycho-pharmaceuticals is to turn the patient into a laboratory and start experimenting. It does not strike me at all unreasonable, that a patient in such a position would feel even more anxious.

One should try to find balance with their life before finding balance with their meds. Unfortunately, there are many families and schools of thought that discourage people form doing that, and instead encourage them to adjust. But, if life is such that nothing can be changed to improve the patient's well-being, then the patient has got himself into a real pickle, and meds are the only dutiful option.

I'm concerned more about the possibility of antipsychotics here, though. SSRI's are child's play compared to dopamine inhibitors. They can remove a patient's ability to handle complex tasks along with his imagination. Baby right out with the bath water. I am not surprised to hear patients complain that they feel like robots or zombies, if they can no longer dream or imagine something as clearly as they could before, and then proceed to neglect taking their medication. Antipsychotics try to cure a disability by causing another disability.

If that disability does not meaningfully exist in the first place, and the psychologist decides to administer antipsychotics to "see if they help"... well, that's not at all a good thing!

 

[Evo]

If changes in environment or behavior are somehow impossible, perhaps. Anxiety usually persists for a reason. A patient may be in a school, career, relationship, and/or other circumstances that are consistently troubling but seemingly unchangeable. Factor in other directly chemical phenomena, such as food, air, and water quality, and one could have a perfect anxiety storm.

You're talking about a minor, temporary stress induced situation, not real clinical anxiety attacks. Have you ever had an anxiety attack? A REAL one, I don't mean worrying over a test. If you haven't, then you cannot understand the difference and should not be telling people that therapy can help, it can't.

The problems we are discussing are not caused by external stimuli. The OP's friend sounds psychotic, which is why I suggested she see a doctor, her problems go well beyond simple anxiety.

Most people end up in the emergency room when they have their first anxiety attack because they think they are dying.

There are people on here that have it much worse. I know several that are schizophrenic and would not be able to live some semblance of a normal life without their medication.

 

[Mickey]

Well, I didn't mean to suggest that therapy can help. I meant to suggest changes in environment or behavior before experimenting with medication. (I have other opinions on the efficacy of a complete stranger attempting to be an expert on the mental functions of another complete stranger.)

I definitely did not mean worrying about a test either. I meant to not only include attacks but the continuous long-term attack of living in a threatening or abusive environment. A school can be one such environment, especially given the fact that conventional schooling removes many of the mental and physical freedoms of individuals. I am not surprised by the high suicide rate of young people, given the unnatural environment we force them into. I do not know an intelligent person who did not consider suicide during their time in school.

I know a schizophrenic as well. I also know someone who's not schizophrenic, but nonetheless given treatment designed for schizophrenics. It made his already troubled life incomparably worse, destroying his relationships and his talents, when he was barely 20-years-old. I know there are drug success stories, but there are also some totally unnecessary unmitigated failures, which could have been avoided simply by prolonging the start of treatment.

I'm not against medication. I just think making one's mind a laboratory should be the last option. We're all complex beings. If people are going to the emergency room, then they're running out of options. It doesn't look like the OP's friend has visited the ER, so she should explore the options she still has left.

 

[somasimple]

What causes anxiety?

Unresolved stress.

 

[Evo]

Well, I didn't mean to suggest that therapy can help. I meant to suggest changes in environment or behavior before experimenting with medication. (I have other opinions on the efficacy of a complete stranger attempting to be an expert on the mental functions of another complete stranger.)

That's why they should see a doctor, so he can ask the right questions and determine if it is an emotional problem (therapy), something caused by their situation (consultation and suggestions to get out of the bad environment), or a clinical problem (medication).

I do not know an intelligent person who did not consider suicide during their time in school.

I know ones that did go through with it.

I know a schizophrenic as well. I also know someone who's not schizophrenic, but nonetheless given treatment designed for schizophrenics. It made his already troubled life incomparably worse, destroying his relationships and his talents, when he was barely 20-years-old. I know there are drug success stories, but there are also some totally unnecessary unmitigated failures, which could have been avoided simply by prolonging the start of treatment.

That's a case of a bad doctor, which is why if a serious diagnosis is made, at least two completely unrelated doctors should be seen.

I'm not against medication. I just think making one's mind a laboratory should be the last option. We're all complex beings. If people are going to the emergency room, then they're running out of options. It doesn't look like the OP's friend has visited the ER, so she should explore the options she still has left.

She's halucinating. She doesn't really have a lot of options. That's a sign of a rather serious condition. She may be schizophrenic. I'm not a doctor, but un-induced hallucinations can't be a good sign.

I completely agree with you that people that are suffering normal stress are running and asking for pills. But SSRI's won't work if there isn't a condition for them to correct. Tranquilizers aren't a good long term solution for long term stressful situations. They need to get away from the bad situation, or if it's just school, learn to cope with stress.

That's why I stress for people to see a doctor, see two. Don't suffer needlessly, there is medication that can help, if you need it, without it, it can drive people to suicide.

 

[hypnagogue]

I have to disagree, no amount of therapy can reverse a chemical imbalance. Unfortunately there is no way to determine if there is a chemical imbalance except trying treatment.

Anxiety disorders are not merely chemical imbalances. There are bottom-up components (on the level of neurotransmitters, etc) but also top-down components (how one thinks and behaves in response to the anxiety). The best treatments for more severe cases attack the problem on both levels.

For symptoms as severe as in the case of the OP's friend, the best course of action, IMHO is to try SSRI's. If the symptoms are very mild, cognitive therapy might help them cope with the problem, but they will still have the problem.

It is absolutely foolish to endorse the taking of medication without supplementing that with actual therapy. Cognitive behavioral therapy is not some ineffective Freudian nonsense; it has been empirically shown to work quite well as a treatment for anxiety disorders. And in many instances, properly coping with anxiety by taking the proper cognitive and behavioral measures is equivalent to preventing a more severe incident in the first place.

If you've ever known someone with a real chemical imbalance you would not be saying to put off treatment. Many of the members here are only able to lead normal lives thanks to medication.

I am not saying to put off treatment. I am saying that there are potentially negative side-effects to medication, whereas there are none that I know of for CBT. Furthermore, the latter can have lasting benefits after only a limited number of sessions with a therapist, whereas the former requires constant renewal. (If you forget to take your pills one morning, begin having a panic attack while driving to work, and do not know the relevant CBT techniques to help keep the attack under control, you're in trouble. Or if you forget to get your refills on time... etc.) Therefore, it behooves one to try CBT first and leave medication as a possible supplement that may or may not be needed later on, or at the very least to undergo both treatments at once. There is really no good excuse for not getting CBT treatment one way or the other.

 

[hypnagogue]

She's halucinating. She doesn't really have a lot of options. That's a sign of a rather serious condition. She may be schizophrenic. I'm not a doctor, but un-induced hallucinations can't be a good sign.

The condition the OP described sounds a lot like mental imagery to me. Perhaps spontaneous, negative, and intrusive, but mental imagery nonetheless. Would you call someone who is prone to daydreaming a hallucinating schizophrenic? Speculations like this might cause undue worrying on the part of the OP or his/her relations, and so strike me as a bit irresponsible.

 

[Math Is Hard]

The symptoms described sounded very much like the obsessions in Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Her doc will probably look for that among other things. I hope she will seek help.

CBT is fascinating to me because we can see it working in fMRI imaging. It is truly mind over matter. Many people get relief from CBT alone or in conjunction with medication.

 

[Mickey]

People respond to environments in different ways. Continuing the schooling example, some people find conventional schooling to be extremely easy and others find it unbearable, and not necessarily because one is smarter than the other. So when you say, "if it's just school, learn to cope with stress," you're ignoring the possibility of switching to a different style of schooling, a profound life-change that could help profoundly.

People do not have a shared environmental standard. What's ideal for one can be horrid for another. This is why determining a problem with the environment is so hard to do, and unlikely to be done when one sees a doctor, IMO. Doctors are concerned about problems with the body, and not necessarily problems with the environment.

Some require an environment that's more stimulating in certain areas. A patient who appears psychotic may need more of his imagination challenged at work or school. Otherwise, his mind could respond to the lack of stimulation by creating problems to challenge it. This happens with starved talents. People who are very rapid critical thinkers may start criticizing other people and themselves needlessly, if their ability isn't satisfied elsewhere.

People who don't use their natural abilities could feel like fish out of water, an animal equivalent of an anxiety attack if I've ever seen one.

That's why I stress for people to see a doctor, see two. Don't suffer needlessly, there is medication that can help, if you need it, without it, it can drive people to suicide.

Medication drives people to suicide too. The guy I knew did not make an attempt until after he was put on antipsychotics. He felt that his mind and life were permanently altered by them. He lost his girlfriend, who he said he wanted to eventually marry, failed out of college, no longer felt creative, and couldn't even trust doctors to help him. Thankfully, there were circumstances that made it impossible for him to succeed. People who go to doctors are already weak, so something like a cavalier use of a drug can utterly destroy them.

I completely agree with you that people that are suffering normal stress are running and asking for pills.

I'm not sure I think this, though... I think people are very different, and there's no real standard of "normal stress." What's normal stimuli to one person could be abnormal stimuli for another. It's also hard for me to think of people asking for pills, but I suppose it happens a lot more now.

But SSRI's won't work if there isn't a condition for them to correct.

Well... yeah, they won't correct a condition if that condition isn't there, but they can cause other problems. Moreover, it's hard to determine whether suicide is a side effect.

IIRC, though, the OP didn't mention suicide. And I was the one who mentioned that she may be approaching psychosis... so I appreciate you being concerned about that too.

She's halucinating.

She may be hallucinating, but she may also just have a strong imagination that is working against her as she attempts to cope with stress.

If she were unable to distinguish the images in her head form normal events, then that's more textbook style hallucination.

She doesn't really have a lot of options.

There's more to her life then what we know from the OP, right? Let's hope that she does have options...

 

[hypnagogue]

As far as the whole "chemical imbalances" thing goes, it's definitely an oversimplified view if nothing else. But looking into things a bit more I was somewhat surprised to find that there is scant evidence for the whole "chemical imbalances" idea in the first place, at least in the paradigmatic case of depression.

See e.g. 1, 2

Of course, that doesn't imply that certain drugs aren't useful in treating mental disorders, but it seems quite questionable that their usefulness lies particularly in reversing and restoring to order some pre-existing chemical imbalance or other physical disorder. See http://medicine.plosjournals.org/perlserv/?request=get-document&doi=10.1371/journal.pmed.0030240 in PLoS Medicine :

Article Summary

Antidepressants are assumed to work on the specific neurobiology of depressive disorders according to a “disease-centred” model of drug action. However, little evidence supports this idea. An alternative, “drug-centred,” model suggests that psychotropic drugs create abnormal states that may coincidentally relieve symptoms. Drug-induced effects of antidepressants vary widely according to their chemical class—from sedation and cognitive impairment to mild stimulation and occasionally frank agitation. Results of clinical trials may be explained by drug-induced effects and placebo amplification. No evidence shows that antidepressants or any other drugs produce long-term elevation of mood or other effects that are particularly useful in treating depression.

Conclusion

Many patients are led to believe, by their physicians and by advertising, that antidepressant drugs will act on the biological cause of their depressed state by rectifying a “chemical imbalance” [56]. On the contrary, our analysis indicates that there are no specific antidepressant drugs, that most of the short-term effects of antidepressants are shared by many other drugs, and that long-term drug treatment with antidepressants or any other drugs has not been shown to lead to long-term elevation of mood. We suggest that the term “antidepressant” should be abandoned. We have proposed an alternative drug-centred model of drug action that is consistent with a demedicalised approach to depression.

 

[Evo]

I'm not talking about anti-depressants which. in my opinion, just temporarly mask things.

I'm talking about SSRI's for the treatment of clinical (not emotionally induced) anxiety. It's not perfect. The doctor has to take a ful history on the person and if the person lies to the doctor about what in his life may be causing the anxiety, it can be a complete waste of time. SSRI's won't work if there is nothing to correct.

But for the people that truly need them, they are a godsend.

 

[Mickey]

Oh, I thought SSRI's were antidepressants...?

 

[hypnagogue]

I'm not talking about anti-depressants which. in my opinion, just temporarly mask things.

I'm talking about SSRI's for the treatment of clinical (not emotionally induced) anxiety.

But SSRIs are marketed as antidepressants as well, and the PLoS article I linked to specifically mentioned SSRIs and the "depression is caused by low serotonin" idea. Do you mean to say that SSRIs just temporarily mask depression but actually do correct the biological deficiency that causes clinical anxiety? That would dodge the evidence presented in the article (which only directly addresses depression), but I think the thrust of the article is to use depression as a specific example to make a more general point.

But for the people that truly need them, they are a godsend.

Absolutely. Nonetheless, I don't think the benefits of something like CBT should be neglected, especially if one's case is severe enough to warrant medication in the first place. It strikes me as somewhat similar to e.g. giving someone medication for their diabetes but not teaching them how to watch their diet. Really, you should attack the problem from all angles.

 

[Evo]

That's how they are classified, which I think is misleading. They are not like valium. They are not "euphorics" They do not make you feel happy, they do work to normalize the functioning of neurotransmitters in the brain.

I'll have to come back to explain more. I have to go to bed.

 

[Mickey]

Dopamine reuptake inhibitors (DOIs) aren't euphorics either, but they're classified as antidepressents. Actually, one of their side effects is a loss of pleasure, or anhedonia, which to me sounds like someone's idea of a sick joke.

 

[3trQN]

SSRI's are classed as anti-depressants, and cocaine could also be called an anti-depressant, it is not so different from prescribed drugs.

"You'r feeling depressed? I am sorry, Therapy is too expensive. Here have some cheap cocaine substitute & forget about it."

 

[Moonbear]

That's how they are classified, which I think is misleading. They are not like valium. They are not "euphorics" They do not make you feel happy, they do work to normalize the functioning of neurotransmitters in the brain.

They are considered antidepressants. And, I'm not sure why you're comparing them to valium. Valium isn't an antidepressant, it's an anxiolytic and sedative, quite the opposite of an antidepressant.

And, actually, hypnagogue is more correct on this. We don't really know that there is a "chemical imbalance" in depression or anxiety disorders, at least in the sense of that being an inappropriate functioning of neurons as opposed to a normal functioning of the neurons in response to an inappropriate reaction to the environment. What we know is that drugs that act on certain neurotransmitter systems can alleviate the symptoms, but how those disorders originate is not known yet. It could just be that the drugs completely by-pass the source or cause of the problem and act more on the outcome. It's somewhat like silencing a nuisance fire alarm with a sledge hammer. You don't really know what caused the alarm to go off in the first place, whether it was an overly sensitive detector, someone pulling a false alarm, or a short circuit somewhere, just that you can get it to stop ringing when you skip all of that and target the bell with the sledgehammer. Basically, all the research is trying to work backward from the sledgehammer to figure out where it's acting so you can then trace the circuit backward to determine the root cause of the problem. The approach of using a combination of medication and cognitive therapy is pretty well accepted as the most effective. It addresses the problem from both ends, as hypnagogue explained, both providing an initial crutch with the medication as well as helping develop coping skills so less medication is needed long-term.

 

[Evo]

They are considered antidepressants.

Yes, but I think that term causes people to misunderstand how they work and the effect they have.

And, I'm not sure why you're comparing them to valium.

I didn't, I said

They are not like valium

Valium is a tranquilizer and is often prescribed as a mild tranquilizer for anxiety, SSRI's do not have a tranquilizing effect.

SSRI's are also not euphorics, they do not give a false sense of well being to the patient.

My brother suffers from severe anxiety attacks. The body reacts as if you are reacting to something harmful or frightening, but you clearly know that there is no rational reason for your body to behave this way. It is like OCD, you know you don't have to check to see if the front door is locked because you clearly remember locking it, but you HAVE to check it again, even though you know there is no reason.

The Evo child has a weird ability or compulsion. While people are talking to her she loops every word they say and separates all of the words into subsets where each set of words has an even number of letters, she does this by mentally adding or subtracting a letter from/to the following word, she may have to loop the sentence in her mind several times before she gets every word to have an even number of letters, she does all of this while the person is talikng , or writing on a board . We discovered this when she started high school. When driving down the road she'd be saying "odd" "even". I asked her what she was doing, she said she was just saying if the total number of letters in a sign were odd or even, she pointed to a sign "Exit 254 Hillcrest Boulevard" and said "odd". Just by glancing at the sign she would instantly know if the total of the number of letters was odd or even.

She also see shapes in everything. I can't remember how many distinct geometric shapes are in a coke bottle, she pointed them out, when she walks into a room, she is almost overwhelmed by the flood of geometric designs. All of this was interfering with her concentration in the classroom. I took her to a psychiatrist that was absolutely amazed when she started pointing all the shapes out in rapid succession in the Dr's office, the Dr didn't even know how to classify her. SSRI's reduce her ability to think this way, allowing her to concentrate better, but she thinks her ability is very cool, so she doesn't like taking the medication. Unfortunately, she has developed anxiety attacks, so we've had to put her back on SSRI's to stop them. Anxiety attacks are physical, you know you have nothing to fear, your mind is clear, but your body is reacting as if there is something dangerous or frightening, which in itself will frighten the person into thinking they may be having a heart attack until they learn it's an anxiety attack. Again the SSRI's stop the "physical" reaction.

You're correct there is no way to know if there is something that an SSRI can help, or which will help, it is guessing and trial and error. But they do work, I actually know a lot of people on one type or another and they don't have any noticeable side effects, just that they can function normally while taking them. I think people should try them if a doctor or two has determined there is no "real world" reason that can be treated with therapy that is causing the problems. Just my personal opinion. I've seen the good they do.

 

[Mickey]

Evo, I know I sound like a broken record, but maybe your child (is that what you mean by Evo child? ) suffers because she doesn't have the freedoms and opportunities to use her talents?

There is a fantasy of a "normal" life that we apply to everybody. Normal life means going through high school, for example, taking specifically organized classes in a highly regulated environment. If someone is exceptional, (i.e. not normal) then why should she be comfortable in a normal life? Could normalizing forces of her environment be a threat?

 

[Evo]

Evo, I know I sound like a broken record, but maybe your child (is that what you mean by Evo child? ) suffers because she doesn't have the freedoms and opportunities to use her talents?

There is a fantasy of a "normal" life that we apply to everybody. Normal life means going through high school, for example, taking normal classes from normal teachers. If someone is exceptional, (i.e. not normal) then why should she be comfortable in a normal life? Could normalizing forces of her environment be a threat?

I got her into an experimental school that the school district had started. Only 92 kids in the entire high school, 10 or less kids per class, she took all AP and honors courses. That way she didn't have to take medication and "conform".

See, I'M A GOOD MOM.

She does need the medication for the anxiety attacks now though, she's ended up in the emergency room twice.

 

[Mickey]

I got her into an experimental school that the school district had started. Only 92 kids in the entire high school, 10 or less kids per class, she took all AP and honors courses. That way she didn't have to take medication and "conform".

That's wonderful!

See, I'M A GOOD MOM.

I never really doubted you.

She does need the medication for the anxiety attacks now though, she's ended up in the emergency room twice.

Then maybe after she left school, she did something that didn't suit her? She sounds like she would be a great 3D modeler or sculptor. Whatever the case, I hope that she'll always find work that interests her.

And you too, you good mom.

 

[Evo]

Then maybe after she left school, she did something that didn't suit her? She sounds like she would be a great 3D modeler or sculptor. Whatever the case, I hope that she'll always find work that interests her.

She just graduated from high school and is starting college. Her current plan is to go into psychiatry, which she's been interested in for years. She's already completed a lot of her first year requirements with AP courses and test scores.

 

[Moonbear]

Valium is a tranquilizer and is often prescribed as a mild tranquilizer for anxiety, SSRI's do not have a tranquilizing effect.

SSRI's are also not euphorics, they do not give a false sense of well being to the patient.

Ah, gotcha! Sorry, I was misunderstanding what you were trying to say before. It sort of threw me for a loop that you mentioned valium so close to talking about antidepressants.

 

[hypnagogue]

I think people should try them if a doctor or two has determined there is no "real world" reason that can be treated with therapy that is causing the problems.

I think you may be misconstruing the function of therapy. At least in the case of cognitive behavioral therapy, the primary thrust of the therapy is not to eliminate some "real world" cause of the problem. Rather, the idea is to change the individual's patterns of thought and behavior with respect to the extent problem, in order to change maladaptive responses (which may produce and/or exacerbate symptoms) into adaptive ones (which may keep symptoms at bay and/or alleviate them).

 

[jcsd]

I suffer from anxiety disorder and have been on SSRIs. At the moemnt I refuse to take them. All I can say is that medication for physciatric disorders can change the state of your brain/mood, but I don't know that they really help in the long term.

 

[DaveC426913]

Let's stop messing about with her life doing armchair diagnoses. She should see her doctor.

 

[DaveC426913]

I suffer from anxiety disorder and have been on SSRIs. At the moemnt I refuse to take them.

At the moment? How long have you been off? I usually go as much as ten months before a stressful event triggers an attack.


SSRIs have their downsides, but the decision that keeps coming up is that you have to balance your quality of life. Are the side-effects of being on an SSRI better than not being on it? Each person has to make that decision.

All I can say is that medication for physciatric disorders can change the state of your brain/mood, but I don't know that they really help in the long term.

Do you mean they don't help even if you stay on them? They sure do. They continue to counteract the chemical imbalance.

 

[Schrodinger's Dog]

You can minimise side effects of SSRI's by careful dosing. For example when you start taking them don't immediately take the recomended dose but build up to it slowly and the same deal when you come off them. Since I have to do this every year, I've gained a deal of understanding of how to deal with unwanted side effects. There are also different SSRI's that no doubt will effect you differently so if one isn't working try something else. There are also alternatives to SSRI's, which may also aleviate side effects.

Side effects I no longer get after self dosing: Hot flushes, dizzy spells, nausea. Took me about two years to learn to dose myself effectively.

Here's a Positive side effect I've noticed, decreased shyness(mostly I talk to complete strangers a lot more than I normally do) It's not all bad, and for me the alternative is hibernation, what would you pick? As said already the ends may justify the means.

I suffer from anxiety disorder and have been on SSRIs. At the moemnt I refuse to take them. All I can say is that medication for physciatric disorders can change the state of your brain/mood, but I don't know that they really help in the long term.

Well that's what counselling is for, you can change your levels of seratonin in the brain, but that won't change your motivations, attitudes and life situations that lead to certain disorders, particularly anxiety disorders. If you feel the drug doesn't work on it's own, then get therapy as well, if you can do without them then that's great. I'm the opposite therapy can and never will work, although I'm told it's a great way of learning to cope, I had to learn that for myself though, and without medication I failed miserably.

Everybodies different, drugs are bad for some a life saver for others.

 

[Mickey]

Let's stop messing about with her life doing armchair diagnoses.

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Do you mean they don't help even if you stay on them? They sure do. They continue to counteract the chemical imbalance.

You'd rather mess about her life doing armchair prognoses?