Help me regain my thirst for knowledge

[jd12345]

Okay guys - I hope you all can help me ... maybe someone out there has gone through similar experiences.
There are some smart guys out there in my college and I feel very jealous when they score and I do not. Earlier I didn't care about how others performed, I was only focused on my knowledge.
I love studying and learning new things but this feeling of jealousy is killing me. I don't want to have it but still can't help it.

 

[zoobyshoe]

Just to clarify your problem: you're saying you used to be satisfied just learning but now you have become envious of people who get better grades?

 

[SHISHKABOB]

I use that feeling of competition to help me focus on working hard. There are kids in my class who generally do better than I do, but lately I have improved and I'm pretty sure that I'm ahead of them. This makes me feel a lot better about myself, but I couldn't have gotten here if I hadn't been jealous of them in the first place, since that was sort of what helped fuel my desire to improve.

 

[jd12345]

Just to clarify your problem: you're saying you used to be satisfied just learning but now you have become envious of people who get better grades?

That's correct.

I use that feeling of competition to help me focus on working hard. There are kids in my class who generally do better than I do, but lately I have improved and I'm pretty sure that I'm ahead of them. This makes me feel a lot better about myself, but I couldn't have gotten here if I hadn't been jealous of them in the first place, since that was sort of what helped fuel my desire to improve.

Maybe that would help me get better but I don't like the competitive feeling. I don't like comparing myself with others. I just want to enjoy learning.

Although I am not sure why am I saying all this on this forum, but still it makes me feel better to share this with some unknown people

 

[LudusRex]

First of all, it's great that you have a love for studying and learning new things. That thirst for knowledge is an important quality for any scientist. However, it's also important to recognize that jealousy is a natural emotion and it's okay to feel it sometimes. What's important is how we handle and channel those feelings.

One way to regain your thirst for knowledge is to focus on your own growth and progress rather than comparing yourself to others. Set personal goals and strive to achieve them, rather than constantly measuring yourself against your peers. Remember that everyone has their own unique strengths and weaknesses, and it's important to embrace and work on improving your own.

Additionally, try to shift your mindset from competition to collaboration. Instead of feeling jealous of your classmates, try to learn from them and work together to improve your understanding of a subject. By doing so, you can create a positive and supportive learning environment for yourself and those around you.

Finally, don't be afraid to seek help and support from your peers or a mentor. Talking to someone who has gone through similar experiences can provide valuable insight and advice on how to overcome your feelings of jealousy and focus on your love for learning.

In summary, remember that it's okay to feel jealous, but it's important to shift your focus back to your own growth and progress. Embrace collaboration and seek support from others to help reignite your thirst for knowledge. Keep pursuing your passion for learning and you will continue to grow and succeed.