What Should You Do When You Can't Forget Someone You Secretly Like?

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In summary, a guy likes a girl once but who he does not want to be with. Somehow by many factors he try to forget about her, but people around him always try to bring the girl up. He may want to carry a taser to deal with the friends who keep trying to bring her up.
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if a guy likes a girl once (secretly) but who he does not want to be with.(somehow by many factors) so he try to forgot about her.and scucced

but ppl around that guy always trying to force the guy remmber that girl again.

wat should the guy do?
 
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A 1000$ secret: Don't discuss the girl with your friends to whom u want to marry
 
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they just knew, i once told my close friend and it just spreads =_=
 
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Set a "word recognition" lethal trap so when your friends mention the girls name, well... they won't bother you again.
 
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Carry a taser. From then on each friend will mention it once and NEVER AGAIN. In fact, many friends witnessing one friend receive negative reinforcement may be adequate. ;)

P.S. - If it still hurts to think about it, then obviously you haven't forgotten. Perhaps your friends are right? Or perhaps you are actually angry at yourself for not being able to let go, rather than your friends for bringing it up. Just a thought.
 
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Carry a taser? Set a "word recognition" lethal trap ? i don't know really get it.
 
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Pergatory said:
Carry a taser. From then on each friend will mention it once and NEVER AGAIN. In fact, many friends witnessing one friend receive negative reinforcement may be adequate. ;)

P.S. - If it still hurts to think about it, then obviously you haven't forgotten. Perhaps your friends are right? Or perhaps you are actually angry at yourself for not being able to let go, rather than your friends for bringing it up. Just a thought.



yeah i wouldn't able let the feeling easily go, but that's because all my friends trying to bring us together, which i don't want that happen. because we not suit to be together.
it's want i think, but it's fairly true.
 
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Ignore them. Why let the words of others guide your actions?
 
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expscv said:
Carry a taser? Set a "word recognition" lethal trap ? i don't know really get it.


:confused: what is there not to get? If you want to stop people bugging you, set a lethal trap... that's what i do anyway!
 
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jimmy p said:
:confused: what is there not to get? If you want to stop people bugging you, set a lethal trap... that's what i do anyway!

That may be true... but then you'd have to deal with the bodies.
 
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expscv said:
yeah i wouldn't able let the feeling easily go, but that's because all my friends trying to bring us together, which i don't want that happen. because we not suit to be together.
it's want i think, but it's fairly true.

I found the best way to deal with things like this is to respond to them with jokes. For example, if they ask "have you talked to so and so recently?" you say "no, I'm still looking for loopholes in the restraining order" or something to that effect. They will laugh, you will laugh, and each time you do it everyone (including yourself) will take the whole situation less seriously.
 
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motai said:
That may be true... but then you'd have to deal with the bodies.


ahh, bodies aint hard to deal with, believe me :wink:
 
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thx guys i try
 
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i just reliaze the hardest person to understand is urself.
 

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