My friends suck or I am too whiny?

[cristo]

We could just keep sitting here and saying, oh, yeah, it's fine and normal, and you just need to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get over it, but I think if he was able to do that on his own, he'd have already done it, don't you? I think he's asking here because he isn't able to do this on his own.

Hear, hear. This is about the wisest message I've seen in this thread!

 

[Cyrus]

I hope this is the last thread I have to see in GD about someone who does not know how to talk to other human beings. I really think these threads should just be locked. Were not here to teach you how to open your mouth and talk to people when your an adult, learn it on your own the hard way if you must. Or go google a self help forum, buy a self help book - do something. Just stop pestering us.

 

[moe darklight]

great, now you've gone and made Cyrus angry .

 

[Moonbear]

And, I think with that, we've picked this problem to death. He said he's going to see a counselor, so I expect will get more sound advice there than from the lot of us.