How can I attract intelligent and nerdy men in NYC?

Thread starter bd7878
Start date Nov 6, 2010

In summary, the speaker is a woman living in NYC who is interested in dating intelligent, science-oriented men. She is seeking advice on where to find these types of men, as she currently runs in a superficial crowd due to her job in entertainment PR. Suggestions are made to attend events and seminars at nearby universities, join after-work socializing in bars, and engage in activities related to her own academic or scientific interests. The conversation also includes humorous remarks and personal anecdotes from other participants.

Nov 8, 2010

Moonbear

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bd7878 said:

cheers i will give it a try... although it will be interesting trying to get one of my friends their:)

Tell them that if you find a guy, they will stop having to listen to you complain about not finding one.

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1. How can I find intelligent and nerdy men in NYC?

The best way to find intelligent and nerdy men in NYC is to frequent places where they are likely to hang out, such as bookstores, comic book shops, and science or technology events. You can also try joining online communities or attending meetups related to your interests.

2. What qualities should I look for in an intelligent and nerdy man?

Intelligence and nerdiness can manifest in many different ways, so it's important to look for qualities that align with your own interests and values. Some common traits of intelligent and nerdy men may include a passion for learning, curiosity, and a strong sense of humor.

3. How can I make myself more attractive to intelligent and nerdy men?

Be yourself and embrace your own interests and passions. Intelligent and nerdy men are often attracted to individuals who share their enthusiasm for learning and exploring new ideas. Show your intelligence and curiosity through engaging conversations and by being open to new experiences.

4. Are there any red flags to watch out for when dating intelligent and nerdy men?

As with any relationship, it's important to pay attention to how your potential partner treats you and others. Some red flags to watch out for may include dismissive attitudes towards your interests or a lack of respect for your boundaries. It's also important to communicate openly and make sure you both have a similar level of commitment to the relationship.

5. How can I maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship with an intelligent and nerdy man?

Communication and mutual respect are key to any successful relationship. It's important to continue learning and growing together, while also giving each other space to pursue individual interests. Don't be afraid to have open and honest conversations about your needs and expectations in the relationship.