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Jul17-08, 04:39 PM   #307
 

Are you single, married, or do you have a gf/bf?


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I have never seen my mother wear any makeup or nail polish my entire life. She hates the stuff, and its probably why I like girls that dont wear it.
everything makes sense now
Jul17-08, 04:42 PM   #308
 
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Yeah, I did. Let me tell you something, honey: I dont send you PM's asking you 'please tell me your 14, dear'. There was NO POINT to your PM other than to bust my balls. So I gave you exactly the answer you deserved, and was too modest really.

I highly doubt you have any victorian manners if you sent me such a PM. Or maybe you should have just put in more thought before you sent me a random stupid message like that.

I treat people how they treat me. You're the one that sent me a PM like that, not I. Dont open your mouth and talk to me like that when I never did the same to you.

Go see a shrink.....................you're nuts.
What a gem!
I sent you that PM Victorian background and all because I was married in an arranged marriage to a middle eastern man from who I had to run for my life.
I don't know what kind of back ground you have, but...............
I AM A SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND THIS IS EXACTLY HOW IT STARTS!
Ask any battered woman.
You can come to the shrink with me sweetie!Q
Jul17-08, 04:44 PM   #309
 
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What a gem!
I sent you that PM Victorian background and all because I was married in an arranged marriage to a middle eastern man from who I had to run for my life.
I don't know what kind of back ground you have, but...............
I AM A SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND THIS IS EXACTLY HOW IT STARTS!
Ask any battered woman.
You can come to the shrink with me sweetie!Q
........wow thanks for the generalization, I think?

I guess were all alike, sorta like black people, eh?

You have issues, talk to a shrink. I dont take smart comments from people like you, man or woman. Had you been a man, I would have told you the exact same thing. Dont play the sex card. You're a direspectful woman, and think you can get away with it by throwing in your "battered past". Get some class you claim to have.

I've been around lots of women, and I can smell BS a mile a way. It reeks right now.
Jul17-08, 04:45 PM   #310
 
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doesn't 'more important' usually mean they are more important (those mental things) than other things (physical things); and should, therefore, be logically the FIRST things (those mental things) to examine on the list first?
No, because it's much easier to see if someone satisfies the physical criteria. It's like, in a very crude way, a job application. If you didn't have the necessary degree then the company would not invite you in for an interview and waste both of your time.
Jul17-08, 04:46 PM   #311
 
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........wow thanks for the generalization, I think?

I guess were all alike, sorta like black people, eh?

You have issues, talk to a shrink. I dont take smart comments from people like you, man or woman. Had you been a man, I would have told you the exact same thing. Dont play the sex card.
she may be saying that you sound like her ex---and even this post of yours, you're telling her what to do
Jul17-08, 04:50 PM   #312
 
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No, because it's much easier to see if someone satisfies the physical criteria. It's like, in a very crude way, a job application. If you didn't have the necessary degree then the company would not invite you in for an interview and waste both of your time.
only IF physical criteria are more important

that's why 'more important' is emphasized
Jul17-08, 04:55 PM   #313
 
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she may be saying that you sound like her ex---and even this post of yours, you're telling her what to do
rewebster, you should get a life.
Jul17-08, 04:56 PM   #314
 
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only IF physical criteria are more important

that's why 'more important' is emphasized
I dont think you comprehend how dating works. When you start dating, come back and talk. Dating starts with physical attraction.
Jul17-08, 04:59 PM   #315
 
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I would never date a woman who would gossip ....
Talk about outrageously high standards!

I remember Dolores Keane talking about gossip in an interview about a song she and Iris Dement sang (When Irish Girls Grow Up). She said Irish women could gossip all they wanted, even though it was considered sinful, because when they went to mass, they just asked forgiveness beforehand.
Jul17-08, 05:02 PM   #316
 
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I dont think you comprehend how dating works. When you start dating, come back and talk. Dating starts with physical attraction.
well, obviously you know more than me (you think), and can tell others that their opinions aren't are good as yours----fine (I guess)--
Jul17-08, 05:03 PM   #317
 
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well, obviously you know more than me (you think), and can tell others that their opinions aren't are good as yours----fine (I guess)--
Let me ask you then, whats the point of your comments? Do you think Im going to change anything I said here? This wasnt a lets change the way cyrus thinks thread. I made statements. You dont like them, fine. What do I care?
Jul17-08, 05:08 PM   #318
 
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Marriage isn't about commitment to love each other. It's about paying the mortgage for the rest of your life until you pass away. You get married because it's a little easier to make the mortgage payments.
That's it! ... I knew there was reason why I so much wanted to meet my wife and daughter at the airport. .... Because of mortgage!
Jul17-08, 05:12 PM   #319
 
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Let me ask you then, whats the point of your comments? Do you think Im going to change anything I said here? This wasnt a lets change the way cyrus thinks thread. I made statements. You dont like them, fine. What do I care?
well, I guess that is the point,---maybe you don't read into threads too much, but when people make really 'odd' comments, they should be prepared to have to defend them, as your post did about 'blemishes'.

no, I don't think, and others may not expect, you to change------why should you, right?

and, yes, I understand--"what do I care?"---what that means
Jul17-08, 05:12 PM   #320
 
Physical attraction is important, and its important to maintain that attraction to each other many years down the road. With beauty being in the eye of the beholder, why would anyone think they have the right to tell someone else what they should or shouldn't like?
Jul17-08, 05:14 PM   #321
 
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Yeah, BobG. Gossip and cliquey behavior in High School turned me off big time! It's a form of passive-aggressive bullying that should not be tolerated. I saw lots of kids hurt because of it, and I would not date any girl that engaged in it.
Jul17-08, 05:15 PM   #322
 
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well, I guess that is the point,---maybe you don't read into threads too much, but when people make really 'odd' comments, they should be prepared to have to defend them, as your post did about 'blemishes'.

no, I don't think, and others may not expect, you to change------why should you, right?
What is odd to you is not odd to me. I dont have to defend anything to you, because I dont care if you agree or not. Im not trying to change your mind. Im stating the things that I like; thus, I dont have to justify jack squat to anyone.
Jul17-08, 05:15 PM   #323
 
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I dont think you comprehend how dating works. When you start dating, come back and talk. Dating starts with physical attraction.
Surely you are speaking for yourself.

There are all sorts of relationships and reasons for people to come together than merely the physical one that you seem so keen to focus on.

While your view may be representative of a particular class of people, even a large class of people, and while your view may be that this is why others date, you do not have the hubris to suggest that you speak for the whole class of all people that date, I should hope.
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