Nerd lover!

bd7878

I always get asked out by these alpha male wall street types, but I really dig men who are very smart and somewhat dorky! I know this is a bizarre ask, but how do I attract these types of men - in that where are they?

I live in NYC and run in a somewhat superficial crowd - but I really am interested in ending up with a man of science. I am the type of girl who gets noticed - tall, blond + attractive - not bragging just thought that might be part of it. Often people tell me that I am nicer than they thought I would be?? I may look like a mean girl but I really am not.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated and please take this in the spirit is intended - I am asking for advice not trying to sound stuck on myself.

NobodySpecial

goto xkcd.org
make T shirt of any cartoon
only talk to men who understand the joke

bd7878

also the issue is not my intelligence - i was in the G+T in school (98%) growing up and am very smart

Evo

I think that answers your question. Why are you in that type of crowd if that's not the type of person you want to be with?

bd7878

I work in entertainment PR - I go to events and things like that. I am asking for ideas on places or activities that will put me in more contact with the type of person I am interested in.

Math Is Hard

Cronxeh sure picked a fine time to disappear. He's in NYC, and he loves blondes.

Evo

Do you have any academic or scientific interests that you could get involved in?

Honestly, there is no particular place intelligent people hang out socially. I think you will find that the people here are quite a diverse crowd, some go to libraries and others are into extreme sports.

rootX

NYC should have colleges which will be good places to meet those kind of people .. ? Co-incidentally I was searching universities in NYC and believe there are some.

Dr Lots-o'watts

Go to a coffeehouse and read a scientist biography. I'd be intrigued anyway (because I've never seen a blond girl do that).

DaveC426913

DaveC426913

1. Go to PF.
2. Say hi.

bd7878

i appreciate all your ideas - thanks keep them coming

lisab

Find a nearby university and go to a seminar - they're free. You can find a schedule on the department website.

rootX

I might be in NYC for few months and thus was finding few courses there


OP enroll in a physics course!

bd7878

i have been out of uni for almost a decade though... i do love physics and find it so interesting, but i'm not qualified in any capacity to take classes?

Evo

If you're in NY, carry small cans of sardines, physicists love them.

bd7878

thanks - i knew there must be some easy solution... should i bring crackers as well?