Is there a quality your s/o must have?

sourlemon

Lolz too much free time is not good for me. I start thinking about everything! One of the thing I thought about, of course, is my future. And I keep thinking how hard it would be for me to be with someone who doesn't want to adopt. (lolz that's why I'm doomed to be single for life.) I know you can't control your emotion most of the time, but if you can, is there a quality a person must have in order for you to be in a long term relationship with them?

Zryn

I'm not sure what you would call it, but a hybrid between maturity and intelligence that allows someone to understand when they're having a bad day, so they can think about the effects of their words and actions, so as to not be aggressive and/or violent and/or have random outbursts at people at the slightest unoffensive-to-sane-people oriented comment or action.

That and 'weekend warrior' style active/fit/sporty (or above), or some combination thereof.

I don't ask for much

Pengwuino

I just want a girl who's half rationale at least some of the time.

So I'm screwed.

Artus

rootX

Just an average normal girl ... that's bit too much to ask for.

jhae2.718

I wrote a mock abstract for a paper proposing using the responses of girls to various statements as a basis for random number generation, but I don’t have it anymore.

As for me...she must like MATLAB

Obsidian222

Yes, he must be able to explain to me what the halibut are these posters here talking about...real slowly........

Zryn

I believe they are answering the age (days) old question:

Don't quote me on it though, some of the people round here are real shifty like.

Greg Bernhardt

boobs and a vajayjay

bp_psy

This. and be female also.

Zryn

Heart beat.

Topher925

I met a girl like this once...but she used to be a dude.

Zryn

Did she have the chop or was she just doing the old fold and tuck trick.

nucleargirl

must be a nice manly-man... and do the chasing. I aint making the first moves anymore! forget about it!

Zryn

Doesn't this about halve your chances of success then? What's a manly man?

Body builder, Boxer, Iron man, Lumberjack, Fabio, Fashion Designer, Chef?

nucleargirl

lol perhaps, but I dont care anymore, its quality not quantity.
manly man is a guy who is not whiney/annoying, is willing to carry me for a few meters at least when I'm tired of walking, makes decisions and not expects me to decide everything, manly-man has to also be intelligent. yes. thats it for now.

nucleargirl

who the heck is Fabio?!
oh I see, model for romantic novels... no, dont like long hair/names beginning with Fab.