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| Jul11-11, 03:16 PM | #1 |
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The Increasing Importance of Good Looks.
I was rather less than surprised to find that over the decades both men and women have placed increasing importance on attractiveness when looking for a mate. You can download the report I read here:
http://www.akst.com/Writings/Looks%20DO%20Matter.pdf What do you think? |
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| Jul11-11, 03:35 PM | #2 |
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I can't speak for others of course, but over the decades, I have placed increasing importance on attractiveness when looking for a mate. Just don't tell my wife OK?
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| Jul11-11, 04:05 PM | #3 |
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| Jul11-11, 04:17 PM | #4 |
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The Increasing Importance of Good Looks. |
| Jul11-11, 04:30 PM | #5 |
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| Jul11-11, 05:26 PM | #6 |
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| Jul11-11, 05:38 PM | #7 |
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We are highly responsive to people's level of energy, their enthusiasm, positive attitude, sense of humor, confidence, dynamism. Someone with good scores on all those points is likely to get rated as having a hot appearance, when they don't necessarily. |
| Jul11-11, 06:40 PM | #8 |
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| Jul11-11, 08:23 PM | #9 |
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As for both of us being right, in spite of your virtual non-existent statement, it is actually quite likely. For the statement was not 50.00000%, it was 50% and so must be taken to mean somewhere between 45% and 55%. Since there are 7 billion people or so, there are a great many distributions that would keep the mean that close to the median. That would be the case even if you restricted the meaning to the range 49.5% to 50.5%. |
| Jul11-11, 08:36 PM | #10 |
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| Jul11-11, 09:41 PM | #11 |
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I don't think it's looks as much as it is taking care of yourself. I think self-respect is the main thing. Are you fit? Clean? Clean-shaven? Do you smell nice, or at least not at all? Do you wear cloths that fit you/that aren't holy/stained?
I think as long as you take care of yourself, that's the most important thing. I can't love someone I don't respect, and I can't respect someone who doesn't respect herself. It all comes down to self-respect. If you don't respect yourself/your body enough to keep it clean and fit, why should you expect anyone ELSE to respect you, much less love you? Think about most major turn-offs, most of them have to do with lack of self-respect: -Smoking/excessive drinking/hard drug usage -Cutting/self harm -Not standing up for yourself -Being unemployed/out of school/having a dead end job -Being extremely overweight -Being extremely underweight -Not being clean/hygienic -Self-pitying Just take care of and respect yourself/your body. If you don't respect your body, don't expect anyone else to... |
| Jul12-11, 07:02 AM | #12 |
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So, what do you figure? 44%?
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| Jul12-11, 07:46 AM | #13 |
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I fail to see how studies like this can have much strength. There is no accurate way to measure attractiveness, it's so subjective and varied that generalisations just wont do. You can make a comprehensive study and ask thousands of people over years but there are still millions of people out there constantly interacting with each other. There's no way of measuring even the smallest percentage of interactions let alone trying to gauge if individuals are placing more emphasis on looks over anything else.
Questionnaires are an incredibly weak method of ascertaining truth, people will answer that they think they should. These results are not indicative that looks are more important at all. |
| Jul12-11, 09:52 AM | #14 |
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In the 1930's, apparently, the notion people taught each other to repeat was something to the effect of: Don't judge a book by its cover. Today it seems to be the opposite, a sort of McLuhan-esque: The cover is the book. If this is the current meme, then wouldn't it also be true that, to be socially acceptable, people will date others for whom it will be easier to make the case that they fit some "objective" criteria for attractiveness? In other words, if everyone is taught to say looks are important, doesn't that cause their importance? |
| Jul15-11, 02:57 PM | #15 |
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But good looks are subjective. A look that suggest they know nothing at all about life looks sexy to someone that doesn't know anything about life themselves. A look that suggests they've learned something about life looks a lot sexier if you don't want to get stuck babysitting someone. |
| Jul19-11, 01:33 PM | #16 |
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In the 1930's the wife relied on the mans income while the man relied on the womans ability to cook and clean. Today it is just personal attractiveness left, so of course good looks gets more important since it is a big part in how attractive someone is perceived to be.
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| Jul20-11, 02:46 AM | #17 |
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.In the process, the average joe hasnt learned how to woo the average mary and the average mary is still holding on the romantic idea of the 'boy approaches the girl chat her up' kinda thing despite her increased confidence and independance....Hence the deadlock....and the huge number of singles out there in the world. I wonder what the stats are in terms of the number of couples/singles for a given age group? |
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