Girl trouble.

Rook

Amazing... 15 pages...
We could've solved the mystery of Creation in 15 pages... (joke)
If this is what most of guys are becoming, then it is a sad future for us indeed... (too many cowards who panic at the idea of women)
Here is a proven solution:
BE A MAN

Andy

What a sad and pathetic thing to say, you must be gay!

Monique

Maybe you think you like her, because she has been giving you attention so you think she likes you. But really you don't like her, you are just wondering if she likes you, and if she does, you like her.

Rook

Yes, that must be it.....
Truthfully, I probably pull more women then you have ever fantasized about.

How is that 'sad' and 'pathetic'? Take a good look around you. To many guys fear approaching women because: they are afraid of them, that they might get rejected, or that they don't know what to say (the list goes on and on). This is truely sad to see because picking up women is one of the most natural things for a man to do.
Instead of attacking what I say, why not make some helpful statements yourself. I thought you made a valid point:
He does lack confidence, hence, in this issue, he is displaying cowardice. But have faith, it is possible to change.

Andy

LOL at you.

There was no need for you to call him a coward.

jimmy p

For goodness sake, lets not have a lil arguement, this guys relationship (and maybe sexuality [6)] ) is at stake here!!


And to you Prudens, don't you think that 15 pages of people telling you to ask her out and the fact that the evidence lines up so perfectly to her liking you is enough incentive to get with her. Frankly, you are a fool if you leave it any longer. I know, I KNOW it is hard to put your genitalia on a guillotine and ask her out but to get anywhere in love you have to. Please, just take the hint from a lot of people and talk to her!!

To be nice, just do it and act [a)]

PrudensOptimus

Alright, I'll act. I'll come back and tell you guys the process.

PrudensOptimus

No, I really like her.

rick1138

Good luck man!!! Go for it!!!

jimmy p

Good going! take this collective wisdom and use it to great effect (who says you have to stop at one [:D] ?)

PrudensOptimus

Progress #1!!!!

I asked her if she goes out with Swing, she said:

"WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA,
NOooooooooooooooooooooooooo."

Monique

that's progress, now you are free to make your move

PrudensOptimus

what if she goes out with another guy?

hypnagogue

Forgive me if I've missed something since I'm hopping onto this thread without reading the extensive history.

But in any case-- you need to go with what people have been telling you. Forget "what if"-- that manner of thinking is only going to work contrary to your goal.

If you want the rush of skydiving, you have to work up the bravery to jump out of the plane. There's just no two ways about it. It's scary and things can go wrong-- what if the parachute doesn't open? But the bottom line is, if you don't jump, you'll never get what you want. There comes a point where you have to silence all your worries no matter how much you want to cling to them, take a leap of faith, and see what happens.

We can talk another 15 pages, but this all just comes down to a Nike ad, my friend. Just do it. [:)]

rick1138

Ask her out NOW!!! Forget Swing or any other dude, think about her.

PrudensOptimus

I talked to her today(didn't ask her out yet), her face was red but she was bold. --> Bad or good?

jimmy p

I would say that was good, she is shy around you however she has courage (maybe the courage to get things going when you wouldnt...DIG DIG DIG) lol