How to Better Myself and Help the World?

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In summary, the speaker is struggling with the dilemma of whether to focus on their own personal growth and success in fields they are passionate about (such as physical education and cycling) or to contribute to society and make a larger impact. They question if their current pursuits are truly making a difference in the world and wonder if they should be exploring new interests and expanding their knowledge.
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FireSky86
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I have a problem:

To make a long story short, do you guys ever have the problem of deciding either to lay back and be lazy or to give all your life to bettering the sciences, mathematics, and technological arena's?

I am a Junior Physical Education Major. 22 years old. Used to be a Psychology major for 1.5 years. Essentially, I am not helping mankind with Physical Education. Just helping some kids learn more about exercising. I am also an elite cyclist on a cycling team. Cycling for hours while bashing your brains to the wall, figuratively that is, in order to better yourself does not make you smart. Its not that it is a job (it's not) but for enjoyment. A selfish one that is.

It has just gotten to a point where everything I do is to 'better myself' upon others or in other words, society reflection upon you. I want to contribute to the world instead of remain this zombie. Sure I may be fit but am I fit in mind?

That is my dilemma.
 
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hope it all works out in the end
 
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FireSky86 said:
I have a problem:

To make a long story short, do you guys ever have the problem of deciding either to lay back and be lazy or to give all your life to bettering the sciences, mathematics, and technological arena's?

I am a Junior Physical Education Major. 22 years old. Used to be a Psychology major for 1.5 years. Essentially, I am not helping mankind with Physical Education. Just helping some kids learn more about exercising. I am also an elite cyclist on a cycling team. Cycling for hours while bashing your brains to the wall, figuratively that is, in order to better yourself does not make you smart. Its not that it is a job (it's not) but for enjoyment. A selfish one that is.

It has just gotten to a point where everything I do is to 'better myself' upon others or in other words, society reflection upon you. I want to contribute to the world instead of remain this zombie. Sure I may be fit but am I fit in mind?

That is my dilemma.

Whether you believe in a higher power, or the Bell curve, somehow, we're all given differing abilities and interests (which may not necessarily intersect, but that's another thread). Or maybe it's just what you were exposed / subjected to during your childhood. Or all of the above. If we all had the same interests and abilities, this would probably be a pretty boring world.

Now I'm not a Rand-bot, but a society such as what we have in the western democracies probably best benefits when you be the best you that you can be. Obviously, we all can't be doing what we want all the time (or are carefree, and don't have mortgage / car payments), but I believe that if we use what we have / are given / are interested in, overall, our society works.

Sure, you might not come up with a cure for cancer but by the same token, how many of the thousands of cancer researchers out there have? As researchers, you put in your flagstone on the path to fusion / the cure for cancer / alternative fuels, and hope that the road you're paving actually leads there. I don't mean to belittle, but we're all (usually essential) little cogs in the great human machine.

Not to say that you have to (or even should) look at everything from this collectivist stand point, but look at the growing levels of youth obesity and the number of kids that are playing WoW (or whatever it is) all day instead of being outside. Not to say that every kid should be outside all the time doing physical activity, but they probably shouldn't be indoors on the computer / Xbox / Wii the whole day / childhood. If you, as a Phys Ed teacher, were able to encourage the less active kids (whether by inclination or lack of opportunity) to be more active, would that be such a bad thing? (But make sure to try to encourage the jocks to develop the brain muscle too ;-)

But the above isn't a defense of being one-dimensional, or "knowing your place". How do you know what you're interested / good at without trying a bunch of things? We might not be Einstein, but that shouldn't stop us from learning Physics. We might not be in government, but that doesn't mean we can't read the "World" section, or civics, or be interested in how the government works, and keeping an eye on it. We might not be Lance Armstrong, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy / use a bike.

I guess what I'm trying to say is be yourself, but don't be averse to new things either (like say, picking up the Feynman lectures). Use, or do not use; just my 2 cents of random musing.
 
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MATLABdude said:
Whether you believe in a higher power, or the Bell curve, somehow, we're all given differing abilities and interests (which may not necessarily intersect, but that's another thread). Or maybe it's just what you were exposed / subjected to during your childhood. Or all of the above. If we all had the same interests and abilities, this would probably be a pretty boring world.

Now I'm not a Rand-bot, but a society such as what we have in the western democracies probably best benefits when you be the best you that you can be. Obviously, we all can't be doing what we want all the time (or are carefree, and don't have mortgage / car payments), but I believe that if we use what we have / are given / are interested in, overall, our society works.

Sure, you might not come up with a cure for cancer but by the same token, how many of the thousands of cancer researchers out there have? As researchers, you put in your flagstone on the path to fusion / the cure for cancer / alternative fuels, and hope that the road you're paving actually leads there. I don't mean to belittle, but we're all (usually essential) little cogs in the great human machine.

Not to say that you have to (or even should) look at everything from this collectivist stand point, but look at the growing levels of youth obesity and the number of kids that are playing WoW (or whatever it is) all day instead of being outside. Not to say that every kid should be outside all the time doing physical activity, but they probably shouldn't be indoors on the computer / Xbox / Wii the whole day / childhood. If you, as a Phys Ed teacher, were able to encourage the less active kids (whether by inclination or lack of opportunity) to be more active, would that be such a bad thing? (But make sure to try to encourage the jocks to develop the brain muscle too ;-)

But the above isn't a defense of being one-dimensional, or "knowing your place". How do you know what you're interested / good at without trying a bunch of things? We might not be Einstein, but that shouldn't stop us from learning Physics. We might not be in government, but that doesn't mean we can't read the "World" section, or civics, or be interested in how the government works, and keeping an eye on it. We might not be Lance Armstrong, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy / use a bike.

I guess what I'm trying to say is be yourself, but don't be averse to new things either (like say, picking up the Feynman lectures). Use, or do not use; just my 2 cents of random musing.

It is not that I am one-dimensional. I just don't know what I want to do. As a believer of the Existentialism ideals shown by Nietzsche, I have the choice to become something that I put my energy into. I CHOSE to be a Physical Education major. I could CHOOSE to be a physics or mathematics major. My major does not require much hard work. Shouldn't one challenge ones self in college and throughout their careers?

I hear sometimes about how some people will put down books and pencils in trade for making money.

One thing is for sure, I am a huge philosophy buff. But then, it can get you nowhere.
 
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All I can add is that a part of the university experience is all about discovering the ways that you can best contribute to the world. If you're not finding enough of a challenge with the path you're on, then there's nothing wrong with switching majors.

And there's nothing wrong with making a contribution to the world completely outside of formal education either.
 
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To be honest, looking at the current situation in our country, we can benefit quite a bit from more/better Physical Educators...way too many fatties, left and right.
 
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When I was in my first job out of college I felt the same way as you. On my vacation I found a psychologist who gave aptitude tests. I took two days of tests (16 hrs.) and in the end found out which jobs would be satisfying to me. After that I didn't even look at other jobs. Most of all I had the satisfaction of knowing that I wouldn't be happier doing anything else and that can be very important.
 
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My advice would be to think of your career and self improvement seperately. You should think deeply about what it is you want to do when you graduate, find something you will truly enjoy doing. If physics interests you and you wish to pursue a career n this field then do it. If you simply are interested in the subject matter but don't wish to conduct research, then a degree is not needed. Do what you will enjoy.

Don't think that your career is the only way in which you can help the community. With a little research I'm sure you would be able to find many ways to contribute.

As for bettering yourself. Again, there are ways to do this that don't require you to pursue an education in a certain field.

In the end it depends on how YOU wish to improve yourself and the community. All I ask is that you choose a career path you will enjoy. ( do you want to be the guy who counts the day till retirement in 40 years or the 75 year old who loves his job and has to be force out of his position because he refuses to retire?) Who knows, if you truly are passionate about your work, you could contribute greatly to your community.
 
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A part of me really hates mankind for the reason that we just trudge along with our worthless wars. Its humanity against humanity. Who is better than who. Who's religion is better than theirs.

I'm a fan of Arthur C. Clarke and his vision of mankind succeeding outside of our little planet. Even though I don't read much of any physics or practice any mathematics, I want to hope for the best for both arena's. I want them to have break throughs. This is what the LHC is for.

I will be honest with you. Nobody will remember you and I in 50 or 100 years. Time moves on. We are just little beings on this planet who need to grow and expand instead of stay boxed in with our little issues.

So like someone said earlier in this thread "I'm just a cog in big human machine." That is nicely put.
 
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aerospaceut10 said:
...way too many fatties, left and right.

So true...
 

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