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Gale
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it seems like there's a lot of importance placed on making your mark on the world and being remembered. why is that? why does it matter to people sooo much? why does how we affect the future world effect us so much?
But I agree with you, to me the idea holds no significance. After all, if you're not there to witness it, what's the point? And likewise, if we do remain conscious in some sense after death, then what's the point of 'immortality' through being remembered? I think it's just an extension of people's egos. But if there's any valuable lesson to be learned in life, it's that the ego is just the tip of the existential iceberg.
Originally posted by Glok
Being remembered has nothing to do with affecting the future. ;)
We all want to die thinking that our presence on this planet made a difference. It is one of our innate instincts, closely associated with procreation. Without those two instincts, evolution would not have worked and the human society would have collapsed because no one would be interested in improving it.
Originally posted by Gale17
Ok, i suppose that if it is an innate instinct, then that answers my original question well enough. but improving society? is that some innate charictaristic of being human? I don't know if people really caring about improving things so much as just changing it, for better or worse. just making some difference in one way or another.
i think the best answer so far is just EGO. i just can't understand ego i suppose. why would certain things (like being remembered: EGO) matter to us at all?
The need to be remembered is rooted in our innate desire for significance and purpose. As social beings, we naturally crave connections with others and want to leave a lasting impact on the world. Being remembered is a way for us to feel like our existence has meaning and that we have made a difference in the lives of others.
Being remembered can influence our behavior and choices in various ways. It can motivate us to achieve success, leave a positive legacy, and be remembered for our good deeds. On the other hand, the fear of being forgotten can also drive us to make impulsive or questionable decisions in an attempt to leave a lasting impression on others.
Yes, the need to be remembered is a universal human trait. It is a fundamental aspect of our social and psychological makeup, and it is present in all cultures and societies. However, the intensity of this need may vary from person to person and can be influenced by factors such as upbringing, experiences, and personal values.
Technology and social media have greatly amplified our ability to be remembered. With the rise of social media platforms, we now have a digital record of our lives that can be accessed by others long after we are gone. This can contribute to our desire to curate our online presence and leave a positive digital legacy for future generations.
Like most things in life, the need to be remembered can be both healthy and unhealthy. It becomes unhealthy when it consumes our thoughts and actions, leading us to prioritize short-term recognition over long-term fulfillment. However, a healthy desire to be remembered can serve as a driving force for personal growth, contribution to society, and leaving a positive impact on the world.