Is this the source of your frustration or just the focus of it? I recommend you take this disregard for what women think of you, tone it down a few notches, and then make good on it by actually approaching some women. If you're frustrated because you're not getting laid then fine, be frustrated, but don't take it out on women when you can't even approach them honestly. The only thing stopping you is you. I believe that's the source of your frustration and your focus on women is misguided.TAKE THAT, GIRLS!!!
It helps if you can look at a woman as more than just a source of sexual gratification. Some random woman isn't interested in your gratification unless that is also what she is looking for. If you know how to be friends with a woman then there might be some reason for her to be interested in you sexually. So try being friendly, whatever that means to you, without any expectations or deception. If you can do that earnestly then I promise they will warm up to you. Even if deep down you're a complete jerk women will still notice you if you are comfortable in your own skin.
I don't see anything wrong with the way you look at women with your eyes, but I think you may be harming yourself with the distinction you draw between women as people and women as sexual beings. They are one in the same, just like you are.