So I listened to a motivational speaker the other time and wow!!! I felt like I could do anything walking out of there. (religious views aside) I respect other people so I wont bring that into this. So that led me to this thread. He said attitude was key. And that we could achieve more than we think. In ALL aspects of life attitude most definitely IS key. Ex, in sports if you're going to face the opposition with the attitude that "we're going to lose" without a doubt you're gonna get it handed to ya. Lol. But I mean, wouldn't confidence and a positive attitude somewhat be like arrogance?? Ex, "I can do anything!" "I can get any girl I want" isn't that "cocky" and arrogant?? You get rejected by someone and you go "well it's their loss not mine". Isn't that somewhat of a jerk?? Lol. what do you guys think? Lol.