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Feeling very down on myself

  1. Jul 16, 2013 #1
    In 2011 I had a heavy crush on person who is friends with a friend(she) of mine.I never met her but I felt like I needed to go towards her.Later I told my friend about this and she became angry and explained me about that girl.That girl is very rich and comes from a military family,she spends lot of money and wants a prince like man to marry.She is a good girl but has some wants of her own.So that was that I told my friend I am off it,but actually I wasnt I kept thinking about her.In 2012 I failed in my high school final exams.I have taken the exam again this.By this time that girl went to college.In this time I kept researching and pointed out reasons for me to be unacceptable to her.

    I am handicapped.My left leg is an inch shorter than right,when I walk I lag.Also from last year I started body building because I was slim.Building is still going and it will continue.My family had a business and it brought quite an amount of money to us but this year it got destroyed in a fire outbreak.We are like totally ordinary people now.

    So here I am,with nothing and still want her.I am working hard in workouts and I will go to college in January.But my leg problem is still here I am considering surgery in United States even if its a risk.And also I will need to have a few hundred thousand dollars for her to be satisfied.Its a long and rough way to the top.


    In all these sometimes I wonder is she right for me,why do I have so much strong feelings for her.Am I in the right path willing to take all these risks?What should I do?
     
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  3. Jul 16, 2013 #2

    Evo

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    And what does this girl do to get your interest? Does she call or text you? How often do you see her where you and her talk?
     
  4. Jul 21, 2013 #3
    Honestly sounds like you're obsessive and it's a bit creepy. I doubt you've even maintained a full conversation with this girl. Better yet if she didn't like you without money, why would you be happy with her only liking you for obtaining money?
     
  5. Jul 22, 2013 #4

    Evo

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    Actually, re-reading the OP's post, he states he's never even met her!
     
  6. Jul 22, 2013 #5
    Yeah and the fact that this has been going on for two years...
    To be honest I doubt any of us could talk some sanity into him, but I really hope for the sake of this girl that you never get near her.

    Not going to even bother giving you advice on turning your life around.
     
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