Before all you ladies get upset with me I ask your patience on this because I really want to know about this and NO this is not a troll. I don't really know the words to use here because I've just spent the weekend with my family and have had to take the edge off with a few beers. Is it something in the female mind to always want something extra, in addition to, or that "something special"? As for men, we want it all and we want it right now, then we stand back and look at/admire it and say "look what I did" and then go take a nap. It justr seems to me that the women I come in contact with are always adding something else to "whatever". An example would be a cake at a party this weekend. It was a sheet cake, half choc half vanilla, white icing with red, white and blue decorationd all around the edge. The men took a piece and ate it and either said it was OK or didn't say anything. One female asked why there wasn't something to the effect of happy 4th of july or happy birthday America on it. When she said this a good handfull of the remaining females chimed in with either "yea, it looks too plain" or "it could have been more festive". Once again, I'm not bashing, I'm wanting to understand the thought process or whatever it is that's taking place when this happens. Is it part of the nesting/nurturing thing that women do or is it something else, like I'm just unfortunate in that I'm always around these types of women and/or my family's full of them? I'm tire, drunk, and sleepy. Good night.