this seems like a dumb question but i just cant think of a solution. black holes can suck photons, that's why they are black. but there are charged black holes, and the EM forces is mediated by photons, so how can the mediating photon escape the gravity? also arent the gravitons (i know gravitons is unconfirmed...) themselves subject to the same thing? so in other words black holes should just be a dot in space with no force around it.