you mean that is just a logical attitude and if he don't do so he would be blamed for that … no.. no listen and this is for you me and others, whether your loose is a physical or an emotional loose YOUR POISENING YOUR SELF I'm not saying don't feel sad no but give your self a break deal with it once and for all. Try to change any negative feeling to positives, I know it's hard but that's what I my self try to do… I hope you get it.Well said. Think of Christopher Reeve. He lost just about all you can loose and yet not die. Even so at least publicly, he remained upbeat and hopeful through it all. I admire his attitude, but at the same time I think he did the only thing that makes sense.