How to make a girl fall in love with you?

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So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?
 

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Nope.
 
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So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?
One cannot make another love one. Love is a gift given freely and not by force.

One can certainly be kind and thoughtful toward the other person of interest, but without expectation of favor in return. One could be friends with the other.
 
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No, but I probably could teach you how to make her hate you.

Feelings are strange aren't they...

Just tell her how you feel and see what happens.
 
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So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?
Bolding of the text is my doing.

Anyway, you sound that you care a lot about what you want. What about what she wants?? Will you make her happy? Are you honestly the best choice for her??

If you want to start a relationship, then you should just try to be yourself around her. If you think she likes you, then you should tell her how you feel.

Don't appear different than how you really are. It might work, but then she won't really love you, she'll love the role you play.
 
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just tell her how you feel and see what happens.
if you think she likes you, then you should tell her how you feel.
Error! Error! Error!
 
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Rule #1 - Be nice. Rule #2 - Be nice. This is a repeating series, in case you haven't figured it out. Just be nice.
 
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So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?
Get a friend to surreptitiously push her over a (moderately high) cliff. Be ready to take her into your arms and make her feel that you saved her from certain death.
:smile:
 
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Ah finally some ideas coming in.. lol.

Error! Error! Error!
3 errors are not enough! should be 10^99 errors there.

Rule #1 - Be nice. Rule #2 - Be nice. This is a repeating series, in case you haven't figured it out. Just be nice.
Error! nice is not enough!

Get a friend to surreptitiously push her over a (moderately high) cliff. Be ready to take her into your arms and make her feel that you saved her from certain death.
:smile:
This.. is.. a perfect idea if it can work.. but unfortunately impractical for me..
 
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Get a friend to surreptitiously push her over a (moderately high) cliff. Be ready to take her into your arms and make her feel that you saved her from certain death.
:smile:
And if he'd fail to save her...:uhh:
 
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And if he'd fail to save her...:uhh:
Well I am no superman or goku..
 
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Error! nice is not enough!
Evo gave the best advise once: "A confident, pleasant attitude will work wonders for you."

"Confident" is probably the more important of the two. "Nice", by itself, can present as obsequious if it's not allied with confidence.
 
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And if he'd fail to save her...:uhh:
Then he can kill himself after he has killed his friend for having killed his girl friend, topping "Titus Andronicus" in gore production. :smile:
 
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And if he'd fail to save her...:uhh:
Maybe he just could be nice, instead. I mean really decent, not sucking up or backhanded 'compliments' like "you don't sweat much for a fat girl". Be nice - that's all it takes. Decent people get a lot of attention from the opposite sex (or the same sex), but all you have to do is be nice.
 
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Let's keep it PG in here.
 
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Ok, I'll keep my advices strictly along the lines of Titus Andronicus, Medea and other love stories of that ilk. :smile:
 
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This reminds me of a movie called "The Tao of Steve".
 
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So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?
You are asking the wrong question. I have corrected it.

So there is this girl I like. I want to her to like me back. Can anyone teach me how to?


If you are starting from love, it doesn't bode well for where it'll go. Love is a mutual thing, earned through time and trust.
 
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Get a friend to surreptitiously push her over a (moderately high) cliff. Be ready to take her into your arms and make her feel that you saved her from certain death.
:smile:
And if he'd fail to save her...:uhh:
Maybe he just could be nice, instead. I mean really decent, not sucking up or backhanded 'compliments' like "you don't sweat much for a fat girl". Be nice - that's all it takes. Decent people get a lot of attention from the opposite sex (or the same sex), but all you have to do is be nice.
No, that will never work. Once the friend pushes her over the cliff, you have to save her. Being nice just won't be enough.

But I do agree telling someone that just plunged 500 feet from a cliff that they don't sweat much for a flat girl would be pretty tasteless.

Unless the friend pushed her over a 6 foot cliff and you failed to save her. Then being nice might be enough. She'd still probably be in a bad mood no matter what you did, though.
 
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1) Become a famous multi-billionaire
2) Send her flowers hand-delivered with a sincere endorsement of your character by Johnny Depp.
 
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You are asking the wrong question. I have corrected it.

So there is this girl I like. I want to her to like me back. Can anyone teach me how to?


If you are starting from love, it doesn't bode well for where it'll go. Love is a mutual thing, earned through time and trust.
Yeah, correction accepted. Initially I thought they are the same thing, but it turns out to some people love has a really deeper meaning.
 
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Dr_Scientist, let me ask how old you are and whether or not you've even actually ever met this girl or if she's someone you admire from afar, as it were.
 
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Dr_Scientist, let me ask how old you are and whether or not you've even actually ever met this girl or if she's someone you admire from afar, as it were.
Alright, 21. The former.
 
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Alright, 21. The former.
That's a brief answer. Kinda inert.

Your job is to thrill us, mesmerize, fascinate us, leave us unable to think about anyone else. Make us want more. Lead us to the understanding that there has been a hole in our lives all along and you're the only person who can fill it. That sort of thing.
 
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That's a brief answer. Kinda inert.

Your job is to thrill us, mesmerize, fascinate us, leave us unable to think about anyone else. Make us want more. Lead us to the understanding that there has been a hole in our lives all along and you're the only person who can fill it. That sort of thing.
And how can I do that?
 

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