I've been serving tables for 4 years and yesterday just gotten my shifts taken away from me allegedly because I am a "bad server." Its really ball-crushing to have been told that you suck at your own trade. Whats even worse is the girl I was eyeing on is going "pick up my slacks" as my boss put it. I think I should just forget about asking her out now. Everyone says I look nervous when serving tables but really I just try too hard. Maybe I should have payed more attention to how I was looking. They are still giving me two shifts on Sat and Sun. Should I even bother showing up? I am gonna work with "her" on Sun, I am thinking I should tell her I got school **** so I was gonna ask about getting cut anyway. I served 3 years at a different place. I just started at this place. 4 years doing a stuff and just got completely emasculated and humiliated on the very thing you should be good at by now, not to mention in front of a girl you really like.