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I never had friend in my life ! I need physics freinds and cool science friends.

  1. Dec 20, 2009 #1


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    I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    Hi, this is me kiran

    Do you want to know how I look like ?
    here is my vdo.

    NASA selected my vdo

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    Does all people have a good friend ?

    Guys, How it feels like Having a friend ?
    is it really mandatory to have a friend in life.
    I never Had a friend in my life (now I am 20)..
    Does friends r really Useful ?
    What is friendship ?
    (I feel like I don't belong to this world .. let NASA trow me into another planet may be some aliens might make friendship with me >>?? )

    Well I feel lonely life is cool. it gives me more confidence.

    Through out my life I never had a friend. I just used to consider my friend as my pet dogs but now they are gone. I am Happy with my family. but still I feel I am missing something in life I don't even know How true friendship feels like ?
    Well, I always been friendly to every one. still situations around me making me lonely.
    I don't know why... now I feel loneliness is really good. It gives me lots of Ideas to me related to my subject like intellectual mind.

    Am I really missing something ?

    Now I feel like books, Physics,nature,math and whole science as my true friend !

    Well, am I feeling correctly ?

    Does true friends really exist for every one ?
    The only things that makes me lonely
    - place where I live
    - having tooo much of good habits
    - following morels and what our Great personalities say!
    - Not lying
    - A unique Mind !!
    - Not watching sports / Movies (except sci-fi)
    - Being Nerd
    - Most of my classmates are Jealous of me. Always try to give trouble to me ( but it's fun)
    and soo many things
    - Always thinking related to science stuff

    What will happen to me If I live lonely life ?

    Does it effects to my mind ?

    what ever you might say, I feel good being lonely ... but "I want to drink life to lees"
    I really have lot of desire to gain knowledge ... to understand nature !!

    Please tell me who would be my friend?
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  3. Dec 20, 2009 #2
    You are too good to have friends .. :biggrin:
  4. Dec 20, 2009 #3


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    yeah you might be correct rootX,

    may be I need to make friendship with physics MONKS !! LOL
  5. Dec 20, 2009 #4
    I think you are too good to have friends, lol. I think all your qualities qualify for a good friend. You will be able to find many cool people here, like I have :biggrin:
  6. Dec 20, 2009 #5
    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    Yes, you are. Go make a friend. Join a club or something. No matter how strange you are, I guarantee there's a bunch of other people just as strange who are interested in the same thing you are. :biggrin:
  7. Dec 21, 2009 #6
    ... or change yourself rather than finding people who are as superior as you (which you believe you are either consciously or unconsciously).
  8. Dec 21, 2009 #7


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    If it's true. than who ?
  9. Dec 21, 2009 #8


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    I don't like people who use bad words in daily life.
    I avoid all. most of the people don't even know How to speak to a person..

    so, how can I change my self ?
  10. Dec 21, 2009 #9


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    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    soon I am going to study in UK.
    the place where I am living,People don't give any value for science.
  11. Dec 21, 2009 #10


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    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    I'm sure they do; you just need to find the right people. If you speak to your average person on the street here in the UK, they will not care about science!
  12. Dec 21, 2009 #11


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    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    OK, but I speak to all.
  13. Dec 21, 2009 #12
    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    you are lucky :)

    and dont think you are alone we all are with you :)

  14. Dec 21, 2009 #13


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    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    Really !!
    but I don't know any thing about you. who are you ?
    you can see me in my vdo.
    you know and everyone knows who am I ?? and how I look like.
    but I don't know any one over here.
  15. Dec 21, 2009 #14
    Re: I never had friend in my life ! I need physics friends and cool science friends.

    see my profile

    am currently doing my engineering in computer science :)
  16. Dec 21, 2009 #15
    What country are you from? There is a website called meetup.com where they you can search for groups of people in your area with similar interests. If you live in a culture that is very anti-intellectual, I could see why it would be very difficult to find people to relate to.
  17. Dec 21, 2009 #16
    Having a best friend is the best thing in the world. You share so many interest and you can share anything with your brah. I wouldn't trade my friends for the world. They are actually all amazing. (the good ones anyway) If you really want to have friends, just be yourself and itneract more.

    If that person doesn't care for you or your friend, screw him or her. Move on and converse with the next person. Chances are, you'll never see that person again when you're out on the streets. =) Good luck
  18. Dec 23, 2009 #17


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    thank you for your reply ..
    My interests are unique.
    bad thing is I always speak related to science and Life.
    I talk like Philosopher.
    and I don't like to be a layman.
    other reason is people use UGLY language.I never used UGLY language. so, I don't mess with any one.

    this is it. I give up !
    I don't need any friends.
    I lost something called hope.
    I did not ask online trade friendship.
    I don't trust online friendship.

    .. I am Lonely.
    I am beginning to love it.

    I never attended parties ... never Pub or club and none.
    You are lucky.
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  19. Dec 23, 2009 #18


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    I am from India.
  20. Dec 23, 2009 #19
    No they aren't.

    You aren't right now. You may argue that you're talking about 'life', but if this is talking about 'life', well, then, this is the same stuff everyone else talks about. 'Life' is pretty much everything, now isn't it?

    1 - You aren't talking like a philosopher here.

    2 - Do you think that you are better than everyone else? That you look down upon what you call a layman? Who are you to say what is and isn't ugly language?

    Quitters never lose. Problem is, they never win either.

    Sure you are. You haven't even tried to make a friend! All of that crap above are just excuses so you don't have to try. Get over yourself and give it a shot.
  21. Dec 23, 2009 #20


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    You don't know any thing about me, how can you say like that ?

    any way.. Who follows morels like me ?

    Man you really don't know me and what stuff I have done !!

    You can't come to your own conclusions.

    Never underestimate a person.

    I always tried to find one.I never gave up.but now I give up.

    my life goon through difficult parts of life.

    Everyone of us experiences different situations in life, depending on our surroundings and place we grow up.

    OK forget it any way.
    even if I get friends here I don't trust anyone cos it's online.
    truth is nothing in online.
  22. Dec 23, 2009 #21


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    You are assuming that..my statements are Crap ?

    Ok than, if you don't like to reply,don't reply.
    and don't say any thing about my statements.
    I am not liar. I am truthful.

    You don't even have a clue about my life, and whatever happened to me in the past.

    just forget it man.
    and forgive me for wasting your time.
  23. Dec 23, 2009 #22


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    Do I need to talk like philosopher ?
    Why ?

    When did I say that, I am better than you all or people?
    when ?
    I always consider my self as a student.
    I am not proud.
    I will be always a student.
    Nature is my teacher and Nature is expert not me.

    I call layman, to those who don't care about science stuff in our daily life.
    In my college. students, almost all students are diverted to

    NO one, not even one like me ever existed.
    I asked every one, I talked to every person.but still No one cares.

    in my college, we had freshers party ...
    than all were enjoying party except me. cos I was Anchoring ... I did not like those movie songs and than suddenly audio speaker (big speaker fallen down from it's stand)
    cos of resonance. than I said it to every one, like a true physics Nerd that, resonance is responsible for it's fall. than no one cared me.
    no one cared what I said.
    No one replied to me.

    I am a MOREL follower.
    I am NOBLE person.
    I am Honest.
    I am truthful and I say bad words or ugly words are bad.

    Now you tell me,Who decides this word is bad word ..

    SON of ++++++

    Now you tell me, Every day i face this .. people use this things to me everyday.
    I never used any bad word my in my life.

    They spake all negative things.

    ask your self ,"have I used these words ?"

    I say, I never used any bad words.

    I hope you understood me.
    I really take it seriously.
    please try to understand me.

    I haven't tried ?
    LOL, who told you ?

    Who said that these are excuses ?
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  24. Dec 23, 2009 #23


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    Dear SBC, I find really hard to believe that you are the only nerd of your college. And that no student take physics/math as a serious thing in life. Maybe you are too enclosed in not seeing them. Keep hope.
    When you're alone with say a guy... who's waiting for a room to open in your university. Just start talking about physics to him. You might start a friendship. Then next time you see him, continue to talk about physics. You could eventually get his phone number or so, so that you can go drink in a bar and talking physics. ok?
  25. Dec 23, 2009 #24


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    dude or sir,
    you did not understand main thing here.
    In my country they don't give much importance to science.
    they give importance to money,enjoyments.
    it's not like UK or USA universities who like their fields.

    it's really only few out of all my country population would be NERD in Physics.

    I love biology,chemistry and math and all science filed but no one loves it.
    they just take subjects as their future jobs.
  26. Dec 23, 2009 #25


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    DO you know, if I talk physics ???

    they think that I am MAD person.

    it is better to know some country facts. something like this might surprise you.

    they think I am MAD.
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