This doesn't make any sense. Are you claiming that there are not certain traits which most women find desirable? (i.e. confidence, charisma, etc.)Pop-psych fads, such as the "alpha male", are great for making a few authors a lot of money. Live long enough and you'll see these fads come and go.
This isn't an opinion, it's a fact.
and possessing these traits is what we're calling "alphaness"..... Which part exactly do you not agree with?