so i'm 17 and i've got maybe 2 or 30 problems. not this week, but the next, i'm planning to have this girl, i'll call her heather, because that's her name, to possibly sleep over at my house for a couple days. but listen, here's the thing. i've never actually "met" this particular girl. though, i've known her through the internet or phone for ~2.5 years, so i'm sure 'bout her. it's kinda odd, how she's an internet thing and all, but i've got romantic feelings for her. anyway, right. so i haven't asked my mum yet and i just hope that goes swimmingly. anyone got tips for springing the big news, or possibly really clever lies to get'er to agree? if you're parents what would you say if your son/daughter asked you? part 2: i don't have a car 'cause i'm lazy. so if any of my fellow nerds have any tips for wooing w/o a car that's also be a super thing. thanks men and ladies.