I'm a computer scientist with just the most basic physics education. However, I watch youtube videos about physics (e.g.: PBS space time) and I have questions. Is this an appropriate forum to ask those questions? A sample question would be a more detailed version of: "How can I match the relativity of simultaneity telling me that a different frame of reference considers its present to be my future with the indetermination of a quantum particle? Wouldn't that particle state already be collapsed in my future, thus the other frame or reference's present?"