is what is red to me red to u, or is it what i'd see as blue? is when i hear "A" do you hear "A" or do u hear what i'd hear as "Z"? when i say whack, do you hear whack, or do you hear what i'd say as phat? when i read time, do you read time or do you read what i'd read as byebye? is my perception the same as yours, or do we percieve what we want and expect someone else to percieve it the same way? What i'm trying to convey here is a little difficult to put in words... so it's okay if u dont understand any of what i've said... but i really hope u understand.... N.B. the examples i've used, could be changed to whatever as you please.