How can a bride get all money of her husband in your culture ? Is it possiblethat he should hide his bank account or maybe he creates 2 accounts, one is let known and the other is not; after each payment he has got from work, he withdraws half then deposits it into the other account. Being a couple, we can not hide anything, if she complains her relatives are in hospital and need some money while she doesn't have, how can he refuse to share ? What if her story is not true ? Should he investigate ? Going through everything like that doesn't seem true love ? In North America, how can a couple live through with this ? During a dirvorce, if one claims to pay for most things in the house, and the other also claims the same ?