love is confussion!! How many people can one fall in love with? I'm 24 and have known my wife for 7 years and been married to her for 2.5 years. I love her and I do care for her. We have very different personalities and one would ask how we even ended up together. Its one of which opposites attracted. She is a good girl,shy(at times),soft spoken,from a proper family life. I on the otherhand am a bad boy,blunt spoken,seperate(at times) not the most honest person,and come from a very broken home which has been all over from state to state and back again. She is an only child (very spoiled). I'm just one of five children. She requires a lot of attension due to being an only spoiled child where I a lot of the time want to escape to some place and just be by myself which doesn't ever work out because i'm bubarded by questions of why do you want to be alone? Where are you going? What are you gonna do? When these questions are answered I always get the same responce! She will get pouty and clam up which is what she does to make be feel guilty for wanting to escape. I do not like this at all and this causes me to hide a lot of pent up feelings about our relationship. Love has put me in this predictament. Love has also put me in another predictament! I have found a love at first site! I find myself in a moral dillemia that has left me numb and confused. I have fallin for a girl that I work with. I went into work one day and she was there. We locked eyes as soon as I walked threw the door. I was captivated by her presence as was she with mine. This is not about lust. Lust was and still is not even on my mind when I think about her. All I think about is wanting to know her. We hung out lastnight ALONE for the first time. We had a couple drinks and did quit abit of talking about our situation. When it was time to go I drove her back to her car but before she left to go home we sat in my car talking about our feelings for one another. I told her that I have never felt such conviction like this for someone and that it is driving me crazy(figureatively speaking)! She told me that when she saw me the first time that day I walk into work and we locked eyes she felt the same way. We sat there in my car for about 15 minutes before she left just gazzing into one anothers eyes not speaking but talking to each other with our eyes. We both knew that we wanted to Kiss however we did not and then we went to our homes. she is well aware of me being married and she has a boyfriend. Why did this happen? How can this be morally right? How many people can one be in love with? My Brain says no but my Heart says yes! I never thought this could happen to me!