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Is it better to have loved and lost than to have ever loved at all?
Originally posted by FUNKER
I believe some are missing the point here, how is it possible to appreciate the good days without experiencing the bad? Thats why i believe Shakespeare wrote it is better.
Originally posted by jimmy p
Also i have noticed that girls go for thugs. Maybe it's a power craze cos even the stupidest girls will be smarter than their boyfriends . Nature favours idiots?
WHOA!Originally posted by FUNKER
I believe some are missing the point here, how is it possible to appreciate the good days without experiencing the bad? Thats why i believe Shakespeare wrote it is better.
Originally posted by jimmy p
Also i have noticed that girls go for thugs. Maybe it's a power craze cos even the stupidest girls will be smarter than their boyfriends . Nature favours idiots?
Originally posted by null
You know girls always get blamed for choosing the wrong guys, thugs and such. But come on if this is the type of girl that you wanted then you are not choosing well either . There are tons of girls out there that think smart guys are hot, and go for nice guys. So Come'on now jimmy p were not all bad .
You met one today -> me :)Originally posted by motai
If girls like that are out there, they sure are far less numerous than the thug-liking type. I certainly havn't met any recently.
Very true, I feel the same.Originally posted by Be Happy!
Love is not something to be lost...it is yours forever...It is an emotion that has empowered many to become the best of who they can be...
People may come and go...love is here to stay.
I agree with Monique. I can appreciate the beauty & fragrance of a rose without the pain of being pricked by the thorns.Originally posted by Monique
WHOA!
Experience the bad to appreciate the good? No, not my point of view at all.. I'd very happily go without experiencing the bad, thank you
I have never gone for the thug type. I have always gone for the quiet, shy, nerdy type, preferably with glasses! My disaster was when I was talked into dating a gorgeous, super athletic type that I had little in common with. He didn't break my heart, I left him, but he caused me significant financial damage before I realized what he was up to, we were married. He is currently under a court order to pay back $292,000. Long, long story.Originally posted by motai
If girls like that are out there, they sure are far less numerous than the thug-liking type. I certainly havn't met any recently.
That's not true. I know exactly what I want and what I don't want in man. I've learned what is important (to me) in a relationship. I understand my faults and limitations now and how much I am willing to give or bend to make a relationship work and with that comes an understanding of when to admit that there is too much incompatibility to pursue a healthy relationship.Originally posted by The Professional - Because girls don't know what they want. They really dont.
Same here. There is nothing enobling about pain. After a certain point it just numbs you, or prevents you from allowing yourself to enjoy things.Originally posted by Evo
I agree with Monique. I can appreciate the beauty & fragrance of a rose without the pain of being pricked by the thorns.
Great. Here I am, eight feet tall, covered with hair, built like a brick wall, and you want Mr. Peepers.I have never gone for the thug type. I have always gone for the quiet, shy, nerdy type, preferably with glasses!
I always think I know what I want. Then I'll find myself attracted to someone who doesn't fit the profile.I know exactly what I want and what I don't want in man. I've learned what is important (to me) in a relationship. I understand my faults and limitations now and how much I am willing to give or bend to make a relationship work and with that comes an understanding of when to admit that there is too much incompatibility to pursue a healthy relationship.
Ivan is as far from being a thug as one could possibly be! He's the coolest nerd I've ever known. I have to admit though, IMO, he's a true one-of-a-kind. I've never met ANYONE quite like Ivan. He's the BEST!Originally posted by Monique
I guess we've only got intelligent women coming to these forums Ivan is not a thug eiter, right, Tsunami?
Why, thank you, Dimitri! That's ME!Originally posted by Dimitri Terryn
Tsunami, I have been meaning to ask you about your avatar. Who is that adorable little creature?
Originally posted by Evo
I have never gone for the thug type. I have always gone for the quiet, shy, nerdy type, preferably with glasses! My disaster was when I was talked into dating a gorgeous, super athletic type that I had little in common with.
When you put it that way, yes, I agree with you. It's like saying "how do you know what is "good" if you don't know what is "bad". But the saying you referenced isn't asking "how do you know what love is if you haven't experienced it?".Originally posted by FUNKER
you obviously didnt understand what i said. If all you knew was a good day, you would not acknowledge it as a good day it would be a normality, therefore you would not be able to appreciate it. you require somethings opppsite to know what it is, a reference point. Its all relativity.
I can very well appreciate good days without having to have a bad day. The illusion of normality is quickly broken by taking a quick look at the real world. I've been in a very good relationship, I appreciate that person more than anything in the world and we never argued one day.Originally posted by FUNKER
Originally posted by Monique
WHOA!
Experience the bad to appreciate the good? No, not my point of view at all.. I'd very happily go without experiencing the bad, thank you
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you obviously didnt understand what i said. If all you knew was a good day, you would not acknowledge it as a good day it would be a normality, therefore you would not be able to appreciate it. you require somethings opppsite to know what it is, a reference point. Its all relativity.
Originally posted by FUNKER
you require somethings opppsite to know what it is, a reference point. Its all relativity.
Posted by Blood Junkie
Love?
The whole concept of it existing is ridiculous.
Don't bother debating.. I can't prove it doesn't exist, no one can prove it exists.. sort of like God. With time and a mind that allows all possibilities to exist, you will crawl out of this sissiness and realize.
Originally posted by Blood Junkie
Love?
The whole concept of it existing is ridiculous.
Originally posted by BLUE_CHIP
Albeit a neurological function, I believe Love is something deeper. but if we were to debate that is gets into the whole "is there a soul" thing.