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Males Versus Females

  1. Jun 22, 2006 #1

    Lisa!

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    So why is that men and women never grow up to stop being sexist and opposing each other? I mean they're always making bad jokes about each other and try to prove their superiority. That's pretty annoying and childish.:rolleyes: I've to meet someone who really thinks men and women are equal. It seems to me that most of them think "well, let women to have the same rights but at the end it's us guys who rule the world." It just drives me nuts when I see men think they should take care of women and they're cleverer and stronger than women.
    Am I just roverrating things because of what happened to me today or the situation is really the way I experessed?:devil: :grumpy:
     
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  3. Jun 22, 2006 #2
    Sometimes it seems like the other way to me :)

    Men are always expected to hold the door for women, hold a woman's hand while she's stepping down off something, etc. Women aren't expected to hold the door for men lol. Does this encourage equality?
     
  4. Jun 22, 2006 #3
    Don't worry about such things lisa, now go get me some kubideh <slap's lisa on the butt :devil: >
     
  5. Jun 22, 2006 #4

    George Jones

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    If someone's (male or female, I don't care) going to get some kubideh, make sure that there's enough for everyone.
     
  6. Jun 22, 2006 #5
    You women just wouldn't understand :biggrin:
     
  7. Jun 22, 2006 #6
    Gentlemen perform gentle deeds.

    Ladies perform feminine needs.


    :rofl:
     
  8. Jun 22, 2006 #7

    wolram

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    Where does this girl get her ideas, sexism died out in the 60s, heck some
    times it is even difficult to see if a person is male or female these days,
    mind you i do admire the female that shows her feminimity by wearing
    a mini skirt and low cut blouse :approve:
     
  9. Jun 22, 2006 #8

    Alkatran

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    TV tells me women are smarter, stronger, faster, and prettier. When was the last time you saw a commercial where a guy showed-up a girl?
     
  10. Jun 22, 2006 #9

    Lisa!

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    :bugeye: :eek:
    Did I say they are the same? Did I say men really rule the world?
     
  11. Jun 22, 2006 #10

    Danger

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    I don't know; I wasn't listening. :tongue:
     
  12. Jun 22, 2006 #11

    Ivan Seeking

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    That's true! I have long noted that commercials and comedy are terribly sexist towards men. You would think that men are too stupid to clean the toilet.

    Of course in that particular example they are obviously selling cleaning supplies to woman. How's that for irony?
     
  13. Jun 22, 2006 #12

    Lisa!

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    Sorry that it's impossible to have a insightful and serious discussion with you guys. I guess I forgot that here's GD...:rolleyes:
    You seem to hear what you expect from people not what they really say! I mean we're human beings at the 1st place not men and women. I explain it to you alter since I dont have time right now...


    How great! so things are only balck and white here. Men or women and there's no such a thing as men and women!:rolleyes:
     
  14. Jun 22, 2006 #13
    Lisa, you forget that we don't live in Tehran Iran where such matters are critical to society. Our society has actually advanced in the last 100 years, not regressed! :rofl:

    With this attitude, you'll never find a husband :devil:
     
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  15. Jun 22, 2006 #14
    Does anyone take any notice of what comedians say anyway? I fail to see much of a gap these days with both sides coming to terms with the peace settlement. Make love not war :tongue: :smile:
     
  16. Jun 22, 2006 #15

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    Rather apt I think :approve:
     
  17. Jun 22, 2006 #16
    Lisa! I agree with you on this. It has always seemed obvious to me that the overlap between men and women is so great that the differences are not that important. I very, very frequently find myself having a better rapport, on a general human level, with some women than I do with other guys. If I encounter a woman I can't communicate with, it's not because of her sex, but because of some greater individual difference between us: values, interests, the way we were raised, and such. I encounter guys all the time with whom I have no rapport and don't understand and couldn't form a friendship with and who might as well be from another planet for all I understand them.

    That said, there are important differences between the sexes that people shouldn't pretend don't exist. To say men and women are equal is something like saying bananas and peaches are equal: it implies an interchangability and sameness that doesn't carry through to all situations. Broadly speaking, each gender has different, but complimentary, strengths. But, given the obvious proof all around us, I don't think anyone should think that people can't excell at things traditionally thought to be the domain of the other gender.
     
  18. Jun 22, 2006 #17
    Men are the best.




    Women are not.

    Its as simple as that.
     
  19. Jun 22, 2006 #18
    There are certain things that men get the best of, and other things that women get the best of...I feel that it evens out overall (In our society, at least. There are places where this is not true, and these are the places where people should complain.) I don't really want men and women to be the SAME...:grumpy:

    There have been times when I have felt like you Lisa!, except that I was treated unfairly because I was male and not female. It works both ways. Isn't there some kind of saying for this phenomenon...oh yes, "The grass is always greener on the other side (of the fence?).":wink:
     
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  20. Jun 22, 2006 #19

    Math Is Hard

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    Did your boyfriend tell you that? :tongue2:
     
  21. Jun 23, 2006 #20

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    There's a sociologist, http://www.concertideas.com/mk/ [Broken], who studies masculinity and likes to tell a story about an exchange between two of his then fellow grad students at a study group back in the 1980s.
    I like the other way he tells it: "...that's the way privilege works. Privilege is invisible to those who have it."

    I think these discussions get off on the wrong foot by not clarifying exactly what is meant by "men" and "women" and the differences between the group level and the individual level. Anywho, I love that we have this concept of a generic person, an individual without any further discriminations. (Though I wish English had a common pronoun to refer to this person.) I used to see myself that way when I was younger, and I'm curious about how often these days you guy's biological sex is a factor in your being granted some privilege, or right, vs. being denied one, or even just a factor in your being treated differently.

    I have experiences both ways all of the time, and I'd really like to know in whose world gender equality actually exists.
     
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  22. Jun 23, 2006 #21

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    I think Yes, Minister said it best (love that series - and the books!)

    (significantly paraphrasing)"...minority groups like Blacks, women and the disabled..."

    "Are women really a minority group?"

    "No, but they share the paranoia that is the defining feature of a minority group."

    ZINNNNGGGG!!!! :biggrin: :rofl:
     
  23. Jun 23, 2006 #22
    I'm never oblivious to gender, but I have found that I become oblivious to people being black if they speak with a "white" accent. I have five casual friends like this and their being of African descent pretty much faded to insignifigance after the first meeting. When they refer to it every once in a while it startles me. I feel like saying: "You're not a black person, just a person."
     
  24. Jun 23, 2006 #23
    Interesting that you said "white" accent. Classism IMO is far more evident and distruptive nowadays that Racism, or sexism (in the UK at least). The way to judge which "Class" someone belongs to is typically by the way that person speaks.
     
  25. Jun 23, 2006 #24
    I put it in quotes because no one commonly refers to it as an accent at all. Blacks, themselves, refer to it as "talkin' proper".

    What whites call a "Black accent" is actually the strong southern accent Blacks all learned to speak English with way back when they were abducted from Africa. There's nothing African about it, but if you wanted to be especially politically correct you might call it an "African-American accent." I'm not sure but I think in deep southern states whites and blacks percieve each other as speaking with the same accent.

    Here in the US the only things we have suggestive of Class distinctions are pretty much relegated to money. The more money you have the more social status. That being the case people can change class with a change in their financial situation. How well a person speaks English is an indicator only of how well they want to speak it (witness our president), and accent is pretty much a regional, not a class, indicator.
     
  26. Jun 23, 2006 #25

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    Well I guess most of you guys failed to get my point here.
    I'm not ranting that it's always women who're treadted unfairly .No, in fact it seems to me that it's the other way nor I have any wish to be a man and be treated like them all the time.
    What I'm concerned about is that why most of us have a narrowminded view on opposit sex. well I see that even the stupid guys think that they're smarter and better than all women(well, I guess he thinks that way because of his stupidity) I think we should get to decide about people 1 by 1 and not simply generalize. I mean you try to know someone and then pass judgement on her/him not simply thinking 'well you know how women are so she must be the same way'.
    I'm not going to deny our differences and expect society to tread me like men in all cases. I say both men and women have strengthes and weaknesses, and each sexes should try to make up for the opposit sex's weaknesses by his/her strengthes not trying to make fun of that or use it for proving his/her own suporiority!
    what I mean by equality is I expect a man to consider me as a human and not a person from the opposit sex. It gets important when they want to get to decide on a issue or pass a judgment. For example it happenes that when you tell a story to people which a man and woman are involved, men accuse the woman of being guilty and vice versa!
    Well although I tried to clarify my point here but I'm still in doubt any of you(well other than women) can get my point here.


    Thanks for your reply!:smile:
    Well if you notice we don't have equality in most of languages. For example we refer to men as he and women as she in English and we use he for human in genral.well gladly that in our language we use the same pronoun for both sexes but there are other sort problems. Eh I even know of some languages when they refer to object as 'she'!:rolleyes:
     
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