My friend is insufferable and thinks astro is a waste of time

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In summary, the conversation revolves around a friend who believes that astrophysics is a waste of time and that other disciplines such as particle physics and biochemistry are more important. The individual seeking help admits to not having much knowledge on the subject and wants some ammunition to defend their belief that astrophysics is important. The conversation also touches on the frustration of not being able to defend a topic due to lack of knowledge, and the idea that it's better to learn and understand something before arguing about it.
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my friend is insufferable and thinks astro is "a waste of time"

As the title suggests, I have a friend who is insufferable, loves arguing and is convinced that astronomy/astrophysics is "a waste of time". I will admit that I am a journalist by trade, have barely a layperson understanding of physics myself and am usually left listening to his rants without being able to defend my own opinion that astrophysics seems Pretty Darn Awesome, so I have made this thread in an attempt to rile some far more intelligent folks to post some lengthy examples of why astro is both incredibly useful and important to the overall future of physics.

I get the feeling my friend has no idea what he's talking about. Basically his argument comes down to "students in school get mesmerized by the sheer scale of astrophysics, the black holes and galaxy clusters and cool graphics, when really the work going on at CERN is far more important, and the most interesting physics happens on a very small scale, and happened right after the big bang, and working on this primal stuff would explain the larger formations that followed." And he has some side-rants where he gets all Ray Kurzweil on me and talks about how really we all should just be focused on increasing computer processing power and how this is paramount because it would "likely lead to technologies/AI that could solve some of these astro problems much quicker than 21st century humans could" XD, and then ties this into how astro is indulgent science and not applicable to the engineering needs of the next 50 years, which I personally think is bull because obviously astronomers have helped develop some pretty amazing engineering in the last century, and I try to make a point of basically the sub disciplines of physics are interconnected and reliant on each other and particle physicists need astrophysicists and visa versa, and he's still basically like "no it's all about high energy physics, computer engineering and also chemistry is really important, but astro is a waste of time."

Please pretend you are talking to this individual and lay into them with unmitigated force.
 
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Is this a joke?
 
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No it is not, and I am not a troll. I just want to be able to show this thread to my friend so he can finally STFU about why astro is "less important than the other disciplines", which for the record I think is a completely stupid premise. Not that I can base this on any knowledge of my own, because I possesses none, but rather intuitive feeling.
 
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Asking people to give a dissertation on such a broad category is asking a bit much. I've dicussed this with another mentor and I have agreed to move it and see what happens.
 
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1) If he is insufferable, why is he your friend?
2) Why care what insufferable people think? Make new friends.
 
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Sorry for posting this in the wrong section.

I understand how ridiculous this must seem to those of you who know all about this stuff. Imagine for a second the frustration you would feel if you wanted desperately to defend something in a discussion, but lacked the intellectual capacity to do so. I want to defend astro from my friend' idiotic musings, but I can't because I don't possesses the knowledge necessary to do so, hence this odd thread.
 
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curiouscase said:
I understand how ridiculous this must seem to those of you who know all about this stuff. Imagine for a second the frustration you would feel if you wanted desperately to defend something in a discussion, but lacked the intellectual capacity to do so. I want to defend astro from my friend' idiotic musings, but I can't because I don't possesses the knowledge necessary to do so, hence this odd thread.

But, I believe it's idiotic to argue for something that you don't understand.
 
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phinds - He's a good guy he's just really opinionated and I think maybe has aspergers? He's the type of person willing to detonate a conversation and make everyone leave the room to prove a point of some sort. Anyway we've been friends since we were very young and I'd hate to stop hanging out with him because of one disagreement.
 
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curiouscase said:
Sorry for posting this in the wrong section.

I understand how ridiculous this must seem to those of you who know all about this stuff. Imagine for a second the frustration you would feel if you wanted desperately to defend something in a discussion, but lacked the intellectual capacity to do so. I want to defend astro from my friend' idiotic musings, but I can't because I don't possesses the knowledge necessary to do so, hence this odd thread.
That's not a problem, learning is what we're about. It's just that it is very broad, but let's see what happens.
 
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rootX said:
But, I believe it's idiotic to argue for something that you don't understand.

I never really have because I can't! Basically the other night we were watching TV and Niel DeGrasse Tyson was on doing his thing and my friend was like "God astrophysics is such a waste of time why don't they focus on something more relevant like particle physics or biochemistry or something" and I just sort of turned to him and was like "Come on man that's ridiculous it can't be a complete waste of time" and then he went on his rant. I had no rebuttal because I know nothing about the subject of the importance of various disciplines.

Would it have been less idiotic of me to go along with him and agreed?

I am almost (okay not almost) embarassed by the lameness of this thread but I really would like some ammunition. I know he's wrong and I'd like to discuss it more with him with some knowledge to back up my feeling of astro being pretty awesome. Again I obviously know nothing about this stuff and you are all much smarter than I am. Please help? :P
 
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curiouscase said:
I never really have because I can't! Basically the other night we were watching TV and Niel DeGrasse Tyson was on doing his thing and my friend was like "God astrophysics is such a waste of time why don't they focus on something more relevant like particle physics or biochemistry or something" and I just sort of turned to him and was like "Come on man that's ridiculous it can't be a complete waste of time" and then he went on his rant. I had no rebuttal because I know nothing about the subject of the importance of various disciplines.

Would it have been less idiotic of me to go along with him and agreed?

I am almost (okay not almost) embarassed by the lameness of this thread but I really would like some ammunition. I know he's wrong and I'd like to discuss it more with him with some knowledge to back up my feeling of astro being pretty awesome. Again I obviously know nothing about this stuff and you are all much smarter than I am. Please help? :P
Remember though, he seems absolutely clueless. :smile: What does he know? He's not made a case.

Remember the onus of proof is on the person making the claim. It is he that needs to defend his point of view.
 
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curiouscase said:
Would it have been less idiotic of me to go along with him and agreed?
Personally, I just shut my ears off. It's just too annoying when someone reads something on wiki and argues about a field that he/she not even remotely related too.
I am almost (okay not almost) embarassed by the lameness of this thread but I really would like some ammunition.
Hope you get your ammunition :smile:
 
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Evo said:
Remember though, he seems absolutely clueless. :smile: What does he know? He's not made a case.

Remember the onus of proof is on the person making the claim. It is he that needs to defend his point of view.

This is a very good point.

rootX said:
Hope you get your ammunition :smile:

Thank you!

Edit: It's weird my left header reads that I have 0 posts. :P
 
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curiouscase said:
Edit: It's weird my left header reads that I have 0 posts. Did I get banned? :P

No, posts in the lounge don't count towards the number of your posts.

Anyway, if you hardly understand astronomy, then arguing about it is just a waste of time. Just let your friend talk and have his opinions. Astronomy isn't going to suffer because he thinks it is useless.

If you really want to debate the issue, then you have to study it thoroughly.
 
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Being aware of my Pretty Darn Awesomeness means I know I'm just Too Darn Awesome to bother explaining the magnitude of my Awesomeness to people of an Inferior Awesomeness to my own.
 
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russ_watters said:
Being aware of my Pretty Darn Awesomeness means I know I'm just Too Darn Awesome to bother explaining the magnitude of my Awesomeness to people of an Inferior Awesomeness to my own.

:smile:
 
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Particle physics studies processes that take place at high energies. It makes predictions about how the universe evolved from the moments after the big bang, a time when high energy processes were prevalent. These predictions can be investigated by astronomers. Therefore, a study of astronomy provides experimental evidence for or against theories in particle physics. I think most books on particle physics written for the nonscientific community mention this relationship.
 
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Your friend cannot infer the uselessness of an entire field of science based on subjective classifications of those who study it. He also has no way of proving that astrophysics will not produce anything of value in the future; the reasons he's given thus far are incredibly weak, unfounded, and are not the product of a critical thinker. Asserting that other fields are more useful does NOT prove that astrophysics is useless.

That said, I believe arguing with him IS a waste of time. :wink:
 
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This whole discussion about science is pointless, as others here have pointed out.

If he really is a friend, then you would be FAR more useful in having a heart-to-heart talk with him trying to get him to see that his behavior is not helpful to himself or anyone else.
 
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If astro is pointless, then so is every other attempt to understand reality. Seems selfish to say that a field of study must produce useful "things" etc. The argument is just kind of sad...
 
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He's right, it IS a waste of time. This Droid isn't the one you're looking for. You'll go home and re-examine your life...
 
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The thing though is to define what is pointless (not just astrophysics but anything in general) and what is not.

Maybe you should ask your friend how he defines something being a waste of time or pointless vs what is not a waste of time and is not pointless.

Having that will give you a better insight into why he thinks its pointless because the focus won't be so much on astrophysics or science, but more on his core perspectives and values.
 
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chemisttree said:
He's right, it IS a waste of time. This Droid isn't the one you're looking for. You'll go home and re-examine your life...

:rofl: :rofl:
 

1. Why does my friend think Astro is a waste of time?

Your friend may have a different set of interests and priorities, which may not align with the study of Astro. It is important to respect their opinion and try to understand their perspective.

2. How can I convince my friend that Astro is worth their time?

Instead of trying to convince your friend, you could share your passion for Astro with them and explain why it interests you. You could also suggest exploring the topic together and see if they develop a new appreciation for it.

3. Is Astro really a waste of time?

Astro is a field of study that has contributed immensely to our understanding of the universe and has practical applications in fields such as technology and medicine. It may not be everyone's cup of tea, but it is definitely not a waste of time.

4. How do I deal with my friend's insufferable attitude towards Astro?

It can be challenging to deal with someone who has a different opinion, but it is important to communicate openly and respectfully. You could also try to find common ground and focus on other aspects of your friendship.

5. Can my friend's attitude towards Astro change?

Yes, people's opinions and interests can change over time. As long as you continue to share your passion for Astro and have open conversations, your friend's attitude may change. However, it is important to accept that everyone has their own preferences and it is okay if they do not share your enthusiasm for Astro.

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