I came across this "older" thread, (question was..."How old are you all?" ...) I am bringing it back up new, because it is worth the answer of a few of us older people here. As for me, getting older is FANTASTIC! I have gone further into the void of the geek fold, and enjoying who I really am. I do know what it is like to be comfortable in who one is. I ditched (10+ years ago) the mental "image" of what is seen in the media, and now have been transforming myself into myself as "what is comfortable" must be who I am. Does this make sense to you?