Quoted from http://www.tesh.com/r/search/default.asp?mode=new . "And one last tip for asking out that great gal you work with: Channel your inner James Bond. Vranich says nothing’s guaranteed to impress a girl like simply being classy and gentlemanly. If you’re going to lunch at the same time, hold the door for her, or the elevator. Or offer to get her a cup of coffee on your way to the break room. These little gestures will make you stand out. And when the time comes to ask her out, you’ll have a leg-up." I guess I'm not out of the game, yet. I can totally do that!!!