I know this might be annoying for some people, but those who are fine with it... advice or anything is appreciated. https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=80721 That is the link to Part 1. She ended up e-mailing me back that same day, and we talked the next day on the phone. The first thing I asked and needed to know, is whether or not she wants this to work. She said yes. We have spent time together twice already, and things are alright. Still kissing and everything... besides the bedroom stuff. She mentionned that we should wait before doing that because she doesn't want me to feel that she's coming back for that. She also told me that she missed me and wanted to talk. She also said she was planning on e-mailing me because waiting 3 weeks is just too long, and if we wait 3 weeks or more, it might not work out afterwards. So, I'm guessing she really wants it to work. The problem is that she still needs time to herself. I give her that time, but she hates how she doesn't want to do anything anymore. She has a 2 week vacation from work, but spends all day doing nothing. She doesn't seem to want to do anything. This is what she tells me anyways. It's funny because she's been out all weekend, and plans to be out all weekend again. So, I'm not sure what's going on. She says that she doesn't know what she wants to do with herself. She mentionned before how she doesn't know if Engineering is for her anymore, and stuff like that. She also said that it might be possible that things will get better when she goes back to school. She will be away from home, and busy with school work and stuff. I don't think there is anything I can do to help, but wait until she gets better. We will only be seeing each other like twice a week, and I hope that helps for her. As a further note, she wants to try and not tell her mom (parents separated) about us trying it out again. She talks about how it's weird and everything, so I guess that might be it. Anyways, any thoughts on this? Note: From what I hear, and see... she still wants to be with me, but why not on weekends?