Would it be ok if I e-mail her to talk about it? I've been thinking about e-mailing her, but only tomorrow. I want her to have a great Saturday night, so I'll wait another day.Astronuc said:That is not begging. That is just trying to have a reasonable discussion about what happened.
I was thinking the other day about recommending Jason just sit down and write about his feelings on paper - whether or not he shows it to this girl. However then I read Jason's comment about her being a ***** at some point, at which point, if I was in Jason's shoes, I would really evaluate the situation as to what I expected in the relationship.
Then with Daminc's suggestion I thought - just send her a nice card with flowers. Thank her for the good times you had and then, well it depends on what you expect to happen. Either you expect to get back together or you move on.
BTW, Jason, its not you so much as it is her. I know that won't make you feel better, but don't beat yourself up over it.
I wish I could offer better advice, but not knowing either of you, it's hard to give some firm advice.
It does take time to get over this stuff. Hang in there, mate!
I was thinking of just e-mailing her to just ask her to call me, so we can talk. I want to refrain myself from saying too much and stuff because I just want to talk about what happened.
I really don't think waiting 3 weeks is a good option.