Speaking of self-love and integrity (post-what is really valuable?)... if love entails forgiveness, what does that mean for integrity? Not to sound too biblical, but if you go against your better judgement, give in to temptation, but later change, repent, learn your lesson, whatever, and forgive yourself- how can you possibly maintain your integrity? Does it matter that you are a "changed man"? Does it matter if you let yourself slip knowing that you could eventually change and forgive yourself? Even if you do genuinely change, is your integrity restored? Does self-love entail forgiveness?