There is this girl that I am interested in. We have talked at school over the last couple of months. Should i ask her to hang out first. Or should i ask her on a date. And this should probably be in person. I'm worried about moving to fast. What kind of things can I say to her to see if she might want to date me without being to direct and putting her on the spot and scaring her off. She is very smart and beautiful, i dont want to screw it up. we talk about math and philosophy mostly.