Hello. I am in need of anonymous, unbiased, 3rd party internet advice. :) How do you know when it is time to say when? Not going to go into vicious detail, but I broke up with my BF of over a year (we are both 21 year old college students), and then changed my mind, tried to come back and we ended up in purgatory. I still care about him a lot. But I something deters me from fully getting back together and I can't place it, yet I can't break it off. We were partners in crime. I'm always scheming, and he is always encouraging me. When I had an obsession with mountaineering, he bought me a new ruck pack and we hiked. When I had an obsession with aviation, we on a whim went and took helicopter piloting lessons. But something is not there anymore and it is painful to realize this. How do I let go? And how do I even know it's the right thing to do?