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Gale
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everyone comes on here and complains about there girl problems, so i want to complain about my boy issues...
I broke up with my fiance a while ago. Weird circumstances, its for the best, but it killed me... he'd found another girl...
so i had just met this guy, and he and i became friends, and then we started like, dating i guess... i dunno... i wasn't ready for a relationship at all. and I'm still not... and I've told him this...
i'm so weak, i can't stop trying to talk to my EX. i feel awful. i always have to ask him about things. i ask about this new girl. i tell him how upset i am. i tell him about my new guy, and how confused i am. i tell him how i look at our old photos... i ask if he does. i ask if he remembers that time... or what he did with the poster i made him. or the videos i created. tell him i hate him for doing this to me, tell him it was best that we broke up... ugh... I'm horrible. Everyone says i just shouldn't talk to him. but i dunno... I'm not that way... i dunno...
i feel horrible for this guy I'm semi-dating... he's super nice, and i do like him a lot. but how do i know if he's a rebound guy? or something more? or nothing?
my EX has such a nice family... i miss that most. it is best we broke up, but its things like his family that i miss. and i miss having someone to take goofy pictures for. and i miss phone calls before bed. i don't miss him so much in particular anymore. he wasn't right for me obviously.
i hate him.
i love him.
i kinda am indifferent in some ways.
i don't want to get back together at all. i want to move on.
heh, before we broke up, i had excellent grades, then we broke up... and the started dropping steadily until the end of the year... that makes me feel so stupid you know? letting it effect me like that. i didn't even realize it. that's the worst part. i thought i was fine.
this has to be the most incoherent thing I've written... its all over the place. but that's how i am right now. i need to just move on. i suck at it though. maybe... i think I'm moving on... but everyone else says otherwise. i mean, I'm hurt. and i want to validate my feelings, and i want to feel good... but I'm trying to move on as well... i dunno...
thoughts? advice? help?
maybe i shouldn't see this new guy anymore eh? i wonder if that's made things better or worse? maybe i should just be single and lonely for a while. or maybe i shoul date more? no relationships, but lots of casual flings? i dunno... its weird... so much stuff going on right now... yet i feel like its nothing... yet a ton... and i dunno...
augh, I'm done, sorry...
I broke up with my fiance a while ago. Weird circumstances, its for the best, but it killed me... he'd found another girl...
so i had just met this guy, and he and i became friends, and then we started like, dating i guess... i dunno... i wasn't ready for a relationship at all. and I'm still not... and I've told him this...
i'm so weak, i can't stop trying to talk to my EX. i feel awful. i always have to ask him about things. i ask about this new girl. i tell him how upset i am. i tell him about my new guy, and how confused i am. i tell him how i look at our old photos... i ask if he does. i ask if he remembers that time... or what he did with the poster i made him. or the videos i created. tell him i hate him for doing this to me, tell him it was best that we broke up... ugh... I'm horrible. Everyone says i just shouldn't talk to him. but i dunno... I'm not that way... i dunno...
i feel horrible for this guy I'm semi-dating... he's super nice, and i do like him a lot. but how do i know if he's a rebound guy? or something more? or nothing?
my EX has such a nice family... i miss that most. it is best we broke up, but its things like his family that i miss. and i miss having someone to take goofy pictures for. and i miss phone calls before bed. i don't miss him so much in particular anymore. he wasn't right for me obviously.
i hate him.
i love him.
i kinda am indifferent in some ways.
i don't want to get back together at all. i want to move on.
heh, before we broke up, i had excellent grades, then we broke up... and the started dropping steadily until the end of the year... that makes me feel so stupid you know? letting it effect me like that. i didn't even realize it. that's the worst part. i thought i was fine.
this has to be the most incoherent thing I've written... its all over the place. but that's how i am right now. i need to just move on. i suck at it though. maybe... i think I'm moving on... but everyone else says otherwise. i mean, I'm hurt. and i want to validate my feelings, and i want to feel good... but I'm trying to move on as well... i dunno...
thoughts? advice? help?
maybe i shouldn't see this new guy anymore eh? i wonder if that's made things better or worse? maybe i should just be single and lonely for a while. or maybe i shoul date more? no relationships, but lots of casual flings? i dunno... its weird... so much stuff going on right now... yet i feel like its nothing... yet a ton... and i dunno...
augh, I'm done, sorry...