...guys who treat their gf's like crap staying in relationships for so long? Why do these girls not get rid of them? I've heard a number of stories now on PF where ppl will describe a friend or somebody they know, and they treat their gf's like total crap yet have a long-lasting relationship. It's not only on PF, I see it around me at school as well, and hear about it all the time. I treat my gf like the goddess she is...i mean, ok, maybe that's a bit strong a description I don't worship her and I'm not infaturated (?) to her, but I treat her with complete respect and I don't think I have ever said a foul thing toward her. I've heard a number of recomendations in various threads here that say you gotta be a jerk kinda to attract women, I don't get it... I'm confused....ladies some help?