! haha this thread is a bit difficult under the rules - let's try to keep it pg-13!
I want to be one. Or at least 3 simultaneously.
to be a dream guy. I want to walk into a room and make heads (women's) turn. I want to be a really good looking guy (magazine cover material)
Geez. You don't have to look good to attract women. Besides, not looking good, why would you want to mate with all these women? Its kind of selfish to want to spread the less-than good-looking genetic material, don't you think?
Believe it or not, I actually wouldn't be a jerk with my looks or anything :D I got really low self esteem so the good looks and attracting loads of women would seriously help. Plus when I meet a girl and get her number, I'll stop having negative thoughts like "she just gave you her number 'cause she felt bad for you" type of thing.
When I get married I'd like my wife to really hold me as this good looking guy that she's so into :tongue:
The idea here is to come to terms with your own self. If you are not in love with yourself, how can you expect anyone else to love you? By corollary, if you are not a stable individual who won't commit suicide because he is so depressed, why would any female want to propagate your genes so that her child would kill herself or be miserable? Its just not going to happen.
Once you realize that you are who you are and you are happy with yourself, people will see that calm, assertive guy, with inner peace and a happy smile on his face. That is attractive. That signals to any woman out there that you are worth spending time with, and that your kids will be happy with being themselves, even if its not really true.
sounds like a cliche or the normal generic stuff older people tell younger people when they say things like I said. I'm just mentally screwed up right now that's all. it's screwing up my relationships with people. sometimes I want to be alone, I feel lonely and said and what not. Oh crap I'm screwing up this thread. If you want/care we could do this in PM or over some form of IM since you seem come of as this "preacher"
I don't have fantasy, I am fantasy.
In a walk-in freezer.
understanding the relationship between speed and body temp alone makes it a worthy experiment.
sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true)
I've had women approach me - even in crowds of people. Unfortunately, I was usually engaged in something so I couldn't take time to join them. :grumpy:and the only realistic way. sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true
That would work for me. Otherwise, reading a book in bed. I'm quite content to stay home in the evenings, even on the weekends - unless I'm traveling.I think my ultimate romantic fantasy is to stay in bed on a Saturday night with a sweet guy who will have pizza delivered and watch SNL with me. I guess I am showing my age, but I can't think of anything better than to have someone to snuggle, snarf, and laugh with.
and the only realistic way. sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true
I still get hit by women up to 15-17 years younger than me. It just happens. Youngest this year so far was a 20 years old. Women do hit on men. It also happens to one of my best friends, who just turned 40 this year and is married. I don't know for others, but I am willing to bet a lot of man get hit by women.
I didn't read all of cronxeh's advice, but seriously dude, good looks won't provide you the confidence boost that comes from working on becoming a better a you and learning to be social with women. you'll get rejected a lot but you'll keep improving and that will give you confidence. (and the only realistic way. sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true)