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On the contrary, men need to understand a woman's perspective.lunarmansion said:This is good advice for Lisa, perhaps not to be read by men. But she comes from where romantic love originated, so she should know.
In my previous comment, I was going to suggest 'tongue-in-cheek', that Lisa! tackle the guy, anterior to ground, twist his arm, and ask him his intentions. That however may not be taken as intended, and the action may be perceived as too confrontational.
Good advice, and I have noticed the same.lunarmansion said:Never underestimate yourself. It is usually the people with the best qualities that underestimate themselves and the stupid ones are all too sure of themselves. It is not about looks. I cannot tell you how many girlfriends I have, beautiful women mistreated and taken for granted by ther boyfriends and husbands.
Relationships shouldn't be about control or propping up fragile egos.
Relationships should be based on reciprocity and mutuality, with dignity and respect - more or less an equal partnership.