When do you pull the plug on a "friend?" So, how many times to you let a friend harpoon you, disregard your requests to not call after midnight, call you names and belittle you, have your POA and not call for a week and a half, never phones you when I drove her to Cleveland, Pittsburgh and many craft shows in the area? These are a compilation of my 5 friends. I went to a little cafe hoping to change my life and find someone to talk to. I spoke to a lady but she was into astrology and had husbands that were nightmares. . I definitely need a new group of people with whom to associate. I find people to be "pointy," i.e. with a lot of vulnerable areas, and I usually say something wrong. I have this fear that people won't like me after they know me, and this invariably comes true. (Self-fulfilling thought vibes??) I am a bookworm, loner and not good socially although I can fake it if I try. I am ready to throw in the towel and wait for talking robots.