When to Use "Who" and "Whom": Tips & Examples

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In summary, the right time to use whom and who is when the person being referred to is the subject of the sentence or the direct object of the sentence.
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What is the right time to use whom and who?
 
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Whom is the used in the objective case.

Who kicked whom? The "whom" receives the action.
 
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It's simple if you think of it this way: there are only two possible situations.

[1] The first is the situation in which the persion being referred to is the subject of the sentence. That is a grammatical term. The subject is the noun that performs the action being described.

e.g. Who stole my book?

In this sentence the person being referred to by "who" is the subject of the sentence. He/she is performing the action (which is theft, in this case).

[2] The second is the situation in which the person being referred to is the direct object of the sentence. I'm sure you won't be surprised to learn that the direct object is a grammatical term referring to the noun at the receiving end of the action (ie the action is performed on it). The word "book" was the direct object in my first example.

e.g. To whom does this book belong? (or if you are less picky, you could say...Whom does this book belong to?)

Can you see that the unknown person here is the object, not the subject? Because we have:

This book (the subject) belongs to (the action) whom (the object).

An easier way to remember it is to change the question into a statement by plugging in another pronoun:

e.g. Would you ever say, "Him stole my book?" No! You would say:

He stole my book! <---The word "He" is correct because the thief is the subject of the sentence.

On the other hand, would you ever say, "This book belongs to he?" No! You would say:

This book belongs to him. <---The word "him" is correct here because the book owner is the object of the sentence.

So that's a good rule of thumb...turn the question or statement involving who or whom into a statement involving he/she or him/her. Whenever "he" is the correct word to use, then "who" is correct. Whenever "him" is correct, then the word "whom" would be correct.

One final point. If you are ever unsure, just use the word "who". The word "whom" is being used less and less frequently and is very formal. Nobody (at least here in Canada) would notice if you used "who" in place of "whom". But never use "whom" in a place where "who" is correct! That would be immediately noticed, and you would look like someone who was trying to sound more intelligent than he really was. :rofl: So if you're not sure..."who" is safest.
 
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Him/Her - Whom
He/She - Who

Short but it works for me.
 
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cepheid said:
[2] The second is the situation in which the person being referred to is the direct object of the sentence. I'm sure you won't be surprised to learn that the direct object is a grammatical term referring to the noun at the receiving end of the action (ie the action is performed on it). The word "book" was the direct object in my first example.

e.g. To whom does this book belong? (or if you are less picky, you could say...Whom does this book belong to?)

Aaacckkk! Don't say "Whom does this book belong to?" If you know grammar well enough to use whom, then don't muck it up by ending the sentence with a preposition. In colloquial English (i.e., breaking the grammar rules as is done in common usage), someone would say, "Who does this book belong to?" This is absolutely incorrect from a grammatical standpoint, but is the way people normally speak. The correct form of the question, as pointed out by Cepheid, is, "To whom does this book belong?" Note that this usage of "whom" is not only in the case of being the direct object of the sentence, but also any time it is the object of the preposition: of whom, to whom, by whom, for whom; who is always the subject.
 
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Hehe...good points! :redface: There's no point making any (colloquial) mistakes if you're going to bother with saying 'whom'. Thanks for adding that about the object of the preposition. I've forgotten a lot of grammar, so that didn't occur to me right away. And yeah...I could have said all that a bit more succinctly.
 
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Moonbear, you amaze me. You know how to correctly use a semicolon, you know your who/whom potatoes, but you call Lego "legos". At least get some consistency going!

You might like the Plain English Campaign: http://www.plainenglish.co.uk/
 
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OK, thanks for the explanation everyone. However, there is still one thing I am unsure about in the use of who and whom.

If I were to say "Sorry to all ##### have sent me an email...", should I use whom; or who?

I am also unsure about my semicolon use, but that's another topic completely.
 
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Dr Nick said:
OK, thanks for the explanation everyone. However, there is still one thing I am unsure about in the use of who and whom.

If I were to say "Sorry to all ##### have sent me an email...", should I use whom; or who?

I am also unsure about my semicolon use, but that's another topic completely.
It would be "Sorry to all who"

This thread is 2 years old. :biggrin:
 
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Thanks Evo, realized age of thread just after posting ;)
 
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Dr Nick said:
Thanks Evo, realized age of thread just after posting ;)
No problem, and thanks for not mentioning that I didn't answer the semi-colon question. All I remember is that it connects two sentence parts together; or something. :redface:

I know some grammar guru will step in here and rip me apart.
 
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Mk said:
What is the right time to use whom and who?
It's never a good time to use people; any people. :biggrin:
 
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Evo said:
No problem, and thanks for not mentioning that I didn't answer the semi-colon question. All I remember is that it connects two sentence parts together; or something. :redface:

I know some grammar guru will step in here and rip me apart.

Rip. Evo. Apart. NOW!
Oh, ouch. Oh, ouch.
Eats, Shoots, and Leaves, by Lynn Truss.

"A semicolon joins two independent clauses." blah blah. Plainspeak: each phrase on either side of the semicolon could be its own sentence (exactly as it is written!), if it weren't so simple and boring.

A semicolon should not immediately precede any of the FANBOYS (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so).
 
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mbrmbrg said:
Rip. Evo. Apart. NOW!
Oh, ouch. Oh, ouch.
OUCH!

Eats, Shoots, and Leaves, by Lynn Truss.

"A semicolon joins two independent clauses." blah blah. Plainspeak: each phrase on either side of the semicolon could be its own sentence (exactly as it is written!),
Yes! That's it! :approve:
 
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Oh, and Evo. The ripping you apart wasn't really supposed to hurt; it was supposed to stop you from further harm.
The ouches were from seeing... poor semicolon... abused like that. :shudder:
Sorry. It's a grammar nerd thing. :wince:
 

1. When do I use "who" and "whom" in a sentence?

The key difference between "who" and "whom" is their function in a sentence. "Who" is used as a subject, while "whom" is used as an object. So, if the person in question is doing the action, use "who." If the person is receiving the action, use "whom."

2. How do I determine if I should use "who" or "whom"?

A simple trick is to rephrase the sentence using "he" or "him." If "he" sounds correct, use "who." If "him" sounds correct, use "whom." For example, "Who/Whom do you admire?" becomes "Do you admire him/he?" The correct choice is "whom" because "him" sounds correct.

3. Can "whom" be used as a subject in a sentence?

No, "whom" is only used as an object. If you are unsure, try rephrasing the sentence using "he" or "him." For example, "Whom is responsible for this mess?" becomes "Is he/him responsible for this mess?" The correct choice is "he" because "he" sounds correct.

4. Are there any other factors to consider when using "who" and "whom"?

Yes, the formality of the sentence and the placement in a clause can also affect the use of "who" and "whom." In formal writing, it is more common to use "whom" in object positions. Additionally, in a clause, "who" is used for a subject or predicate nominative, while "whom" is used for an object or object of a preposition.

5. Can "who" and "whom" be used interchangeably?

No, they have different meanings and functions in a sentence. Using the wrong one can change the meaning of the sentence or make it grammatically incorrect. It is important to understand the difference between the two and use them correctly in your writing.

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