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just curious!
Rainbow Rider
Rainbow Rider
Regardless of my position on the unintellectual or intellectual scale that would not bother me at all actually I would welcome constructive criticism of ANY kind, I repeat, CONSTRUCTIVE criticism.Bystander said:Because "an" intellectual will be forever correcting your grammar.
Bystander said:Because "an" intellectual will be forever correcting your grammar.
Say what?Bystander said:Beg pardon --- would have sworn the original text was, " a intellectual," and cannot recover what was in the "unanswered posts" list to support such a claim, nor the basis for the response.
Your perspective is appreciated.Dr. Courtney said:I dated lots of girls in high school and college. I think the intellectual spectrum was well represented.
I ended up marrying a brilliant and beautiful engineer about to start grad school in the Harvard-MIT Medical Engineering/Medical Physics Program.
A lot of these threads confuse intellect with meanness as if one has to have a lower IQ just to be nice.
My wife is one of the kindest people I know and my true soulmate. The brilliant thing is just gravy, but there is a lot of gravy ...
Dr. Courtney said:I dated lots of girls in high school and college. I think the intellectual spectrum was well represented.
I ended up marrying a brilliant and beautiful engineer about to start grad school in the Harvard-MIT Medical Engineering/Medical Physics Program.
A lot of these threads confuse intellect with meanness as if one has to have a lower IQ just to be nice.
My wife is one of the kindest people I know and my true soulmate. The brilliant thing is just gravy, but there is a lot of gravy ...
That's one of my weekness. I can't keep from correcting.Bystander said:Because "an" intellectual will be forever correcting your grammar.
The thread title is "Why would you NOT date a nonintellectual?"Bystander said:Beg pardon --- would have sworn the original text was, " a intellectual," and cannot recover what was in the "unanswered posts" list to support such a claim, nor the basis for the response.
gjonesy said:Being either intellectual or what you would consider nonintellectual is a matter of perception. But to answer the question for practical purposes I would say intellectual incompatibility.
Pythagorean said:You're possibly thinking of the original thread of which this is a parody?
gjonesy said:Actually I was playing devil's advocate by stating the obvious. (Intellectuals wouldn't have much in common with nonintellectuals as far as conversations go maybe)
That in no way implies intelligent people couldn't date someone who isn't as intelligent. Plenty of basic commonality within the human species that other qualities can be just as valuable in a partner.I would and actually do date what many of you would consider an "nonintellectual". But she is smart sensitive, and fun. She has far to many great qualities to list here. So what if we can't have meaningful conversations about science. I don't really care,...we have so many other things in life to concern ourselves with.
Pythagorean said:I agree with your perspective. I have a handful of partners - if I were so picky, I'd only have one[/QUOTE
Variety is the spice of life
[PLAIN said:http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/intellect][/PLAIN]
Full Definition of intellect
1 a : the power of knowing as distinguished from the power to feel and to will : the capacity for knowledge
b : the capacity for rational or intelligent thought especially when highly developed
I totally agree. My ex-sister-in-law has a PHD in library science. But has zero "common sense" . Small practical problems with very simple solutions would sometimes baffle this otherwise highly intellectual person.jim hardy said:We confuse intellect with education sometimes.
Takes some time to sort it out.
Uhm...because the nonintellectual don't know how to date or be dated.Why would you NOT date a nonintellectual?
Intelligence is important in a partner because it allows for deeper and more meaningful conversations, shared interests, and similar problem-solving abilities. It can also lead to a stronger emotional connection and a more fulfilling relationship.
It is not fair to judge someone solely based on their intelligence. However, it is important to have a partner who is intellectually stimulating and can engage in thoughtful discussions with you. It is also important to recognize that intelligence comes in many forms and should not be limited to traditional academic measures.
Yes, a relationship can work if one person is highly intellectual and the other is not. What matters most is mutual respect, understanding, and open communication. Both partners can learn from each other and grow together, as long as there is a willingness to do so.
It can be challenging to determine someone's intelligence in a dating context as it is a complex and multifaceted trait. Some ways to gauge intelligence may include observing their communication skills, problem-solving abilities, and interests. However, it is important to remember that these are just indicators and do not define someone's entire intellectual capacity.
While there can be many benefits to dating someone who is highly intellectual, there may also be some potential downsides. These can include feeling intimidated or inferior, difficulty in finding common ground, and potential differences in values or communication styles. It is important to address these potential issues and communicate openly with your partner to ensure a healthy and fulfilling relationship.