WTF GIRLS please help

  1. WTF GIRLS please help!!

    Well im in the first (university) year, so i met a girl called "beta". So i introduced myself to beta and we talked like 1 hour and she laugh, etc. so we had a good conversation.

    And in the next days, we crossed sometimes in the path, and she just go away without saying nothing. WTF is that...

    So i had the courage again to go and talk to her again, so when i talked to her she just talk, but not seeing my eyes...

    What should i do?
    her behaviour is a shy girl, likes to study, silent in the class, and in the class she only had 1 friend.

    I need help quicky!!! (i had 18 years old and she too)
     
  2. jcsd
  3. Is this the Dating Forums?......................................:uhh:


    Edit: Why is the rolleyes smiley not working?
     
    Last edited: Jan 24, 2007
  4. Wasn't there a thread about physics pickup lines somewhere around here? :biggrin:
     
  5. Yes, the radio-carbon type. :tongue2:
     
  6. BobG

    BobG 2,357
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    There's always problems with the beta version.

    But, don't worry, it gets better: Upgrading to Wife 1.0
     
  7. ranger

    ranger 1,684
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    Thats a good one :rofl:
     
  8. zinggggggggg! :rofl:
     
  9. You just had a/one conversation. It is not like you have all rights reserved on her. Relax. Don't obsess.
     
  10. Just continue to talk with her, and let nature take its course.
     
  11. Moonbear

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    Let's see, she's shy and you sound a bit shy too...so, why are you surprised she's a little quiet and timid about making eye contact when you talk to her? Start worrying if everytime she sees you heading her way, she runs the other way. :biggrin:

    You asked what should you do, but all I can ask back is, what do you want to do? Are you interested in just being friends, or asking her out on a date? If it's the former, you're already heading that way. If the latter, well, then ask. If she's so shy, she's probably not going to ask you, so it's up to you if you want to do it. Keep in mind, if she's very shy and has few friends, she also might not take you up on your offer immediately...too surprised someone is interested in her, or unaccustomed to being asked out, or maybe just very reserved about dating or socializing in general.
     
  12. Gokul43201

    Gokul43201 11,141
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    Maybe you need to forget about this one over Katie.
     
  13. FredGarvin

    FredGarvin 5,087
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    The only problem with upgrading is the periodic maitenance fees.
     
  14. russ_watters

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    Better? From the description, it doesn't look that great to me.... [ducks and covers]
     
  15. Moonbear

    Moonbear 12,265
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    :rofl: It's sort of like a Microsoft upgrade. Just when you think you've figured out how to use the thing and found work-arounds for the worst of the bugs, they upgrade you to a version with a whole new set of bugs. :biggrin:

    Just be careful, because many are shipped infected with a virus that is hard to get rid of if you try to delete the entire program. You'll spend a fortune in monthly fees on the only virus protection software that works for it...
    Alimony 2.6

    :wink:
     
  16. Just ask her out for coffee next time you see her.
     
  17. Best answer yet :wink:
     
  18. My answer was was better.
     
  19. Gokul43201

    Gokul43201 11,141
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    Unless she's a keyboard!
     
  20. During the first conversation she was feeling gregarious and emotionally expansive. Something happened later that put her in the opposite mood, and she is embarrassed to interact with you when she can't live up to the previous energy she had. She may, in fact, be bipolar and not know it, or something rather extreme happened to change her mood in the meantime.

    Best to leave her be unless she approaches you again. There should be plenty of other girls to talk to. Keep that in mind.
     
  21. BobG

    BobG 2,357
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    Are you sane?!

    If so, then zooby might be right: https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=103272
     
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